Hey folks! I think natural gaming is what appeals the most to me. I want to understand the Game as explained by Style and Mystery, just to get a good and thorough overview, but it seems like people like Corey Wayne, David Deida, and Zan Perrion are the ones that appeal the most to me. So on that regard I think I have to clean up / get a clearer sense of my identity and purpose in life for me to become more attractive and confident. I'm already a yoga-practitioner for several years, and has always had this sense of connecting with people through cultivating a good inner vibe / energy, but now I need to learn to use this vibe to get more in touch with my "masculine power" and use it to connect with and attract women. With the oneitis experience I just had, it seems like the main problem is that one makes that woman into ones primary goal in life, in stead of ones higher purpose, and that will make her loose all attraction. Any thoughts on this process? I'm pretty eager to communicate about it

That's a loaded question. What comes first: the chicken or the egg? Many guys feel that they need a woman before they allow themselves to feel happy. Unfortunately, you won't attract a happy woman unless you're happy yourself first - at least not quality women. Like attracts like in a way. Though you might attract someone by accident and sheer luck, but generally speaking, you are more attractive as a guy when you're content with yourself.

So now, how to start the process? First of all, very few PUA's - maybe Brad with his Lifestyle Academy course - teach stuff about achieving happiness. I think the most useful material comes from outside the PUA world; people like Tony Robbins, Robin Sharma, Kelly McGonigal, etc. are much more effective in teaching this.

Second, it's about identifying all of the things that would lead to happiness. Inner game, lifestyle, great social network, great job, fitness, health, PUA success, blah blah. Then setting goals to achieve them.

Then last but not least, it's all about execution.

How are you approaching it? What have you tried?

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Well….. I need to brush up on both my lifestyle, style and my identity. I'm an unemployed social worker living on the sofa in my art studio. Sometimes I exhibit, but I wouldn't consider myself a professional artist. Guitar-playing is also very important to me. But I've been 3 months in a bad oneitis-case, which resulted in us having to end our friendship (I was sooo friendzoned), and the focus went out of all my creative interests. I'm both into the art and music scene here in my city, and the yoga and meditation scene. I would consider myself both a person with a lot of energy, and a lot of interesting hobbies. But I'm quite scattered at the same time, with my focus drifting all over the place, so I think that if I could actually get my ambitions going again, both with the art and the guitar, and actually also start working again as a social worker, and collect it all into one unified identity, then I would be more attractive, and also happy because of getting results with things that means a lot to me. I do yoga every morning (10 sun salutations), and I'm also very much into the practice of self-acceptance, creating some sort of mental therapeutic space for the whole of my being, and also the world, but I feel that if I could get my ambitions going (and they are already on the rise), and this is were women and purpose and those spiritual inclined dating coaches comes in, then I would be able to live more up to my fullest potential. It wouldn't need to be so grand either, because I'm very much into keeping things simple, but one step at a time in the right direction. I'm looking for a focused, dedicated, unified and simple lifestyle and identity, being an attractive man with a clear purpose, dating women frequently, instead of creative chaos, passivity and being friendzoned, sort of like cracking my own personality code, using all these ingredients that I already consists of, but putting them together into something much more unified and attractive...... Makes any sense?

Stop wasting your time reading community material - especially Style and Mystery.

You might find this interesting:
http://centeredmanproject.com/have-you- ... ke-a-lion/

Love
Mack

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