I think people don't understand the concept of introvert and extrovert when they say that women prefer one or another.
Introverted people use energy when they are around people. That doesn't mean we don't like company, or we're not sociable. I absolutely love being around people, I just need a little time to recharge after it.
Extroverted people get energy when they are around people. That doesn't mean they can't be alone, but they need company to feel really energetic.
Introverted people tend to focus on what's with them, and extroverted people tend to focus on what's around them. And here's when confidence comes in:
-A confident introvert will only care about his business, and how to succeed with it. His charm is his assertive, yet mysterious vibe.
-An introvert with low self-esteem will play different scenarious in his head, already planning B-C-D plans in case of (very likely) failure.
-A confident extrovert will be able to tell great stories and be the center of attention. His charm is his social value.
-An extrovert with low self-esteem will look at other people around him and try desperately for attention with little to no success.
Any women will prefer the confident introvert, over the pussy extrovert. Confident introvert vs confident extrovert is completely personal preference.
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On a subconscious level women are all turned on by the same things.
This is not true at all. Not in the sense that you are trying to put it. First, even if we talk about only heterosexual women, we need to take out the masculine type, who prefers weaker men. Then we need to focus on the personality traits that really all of these, feminine women want. And we can conclude that there is hardly anything except for confidence, humour, and sexual presence. None of these are related to being extroverted-introverted in any way
Peace,
In$tinct