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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2014 4:18 pm 
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When gaming a girl, does it matter if you're an extrovert or introvert? Do girls prefer one over the other?


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Whichever is more like you. That's what they will like.


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It depends on more factors than just this. Generally speaking, introvert girls will prefer introverts, and extrovert girls will prefer extroverts, but other personality traits can overwhelm the difference or the similarity. I wouldn't worry about it...

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There was some good stuff by chief on this point around here a couple of months ago, can't find it having had a quick skim but try and find it in one of the forums.

Basically, it depends what you mean by introvert or extrovert. If you mean shy or not shy, then yes it matters. Shyness isn't attractive. If, however, you mean it in its proper meaning closer to quiet vs loud and brash, then no it doesn't matter. A quiet confident guy can have just as much success as a loud confident guy. Different ways of going about things, but it won't hinder results if done properly.


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There was some good stuff by chief on this point around here a couple of months ago, can't find it having had a quick skim but try and find it in one of the forums.

Basically, it depends what you mean by introvert or extrovert. If you mean shy or not shy, then yes it matters. Shyness isn't attractive. If, however, you mean it in its proper meaning closer to quiet vs loud and brash, then no it doesn't matter. A quiet confident guy can have just as much success as a loud confident guy. Different ways of going about things, but it won't hinder results if done properly.
Right on point. I describe myself as an extrovert but I do have moments of brief "introvertedness" or what can be perceived as such. For example, I can sit back and chill and allow the things around me to happen as they may without feeling the incessant need to interact with the event in some fashion.

Just be you, in that moment and own it. Recognizing that you are an introvert and actively understanding your mood/actions at the time is a big step.

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It just matters how you use it. Sometimes being introvert is more successful, sometimes being extrovert has more value.


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Great points.

I'm not a shy guy. I'm kinda in the middle, i guess. Just thought about what girls like/want, prefer.


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Great points.

I'm not a shy guy. I'm kinda in the middle, i guess. Just thought about what girls like/want, prefer.
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I disagree with some of the posters here in that I think all women prefer extroverted men including the introverted ones.

One of the biggest challenges that a lot of men face is acting like an extrovert because they see people acting extroverted and assume that it's something they were born with. Well I think every kid is usually shy and reserved on the first day of skill regardless of how "extroverted" they appear when they're put into a familiar situation.

I think it's more likely to suggest that everyone starts as an introvert and only becomes an extrovert if the situation they're in requires them to be an extrovert. When you try to pick up women, you become an extrovert because it doesn't work any other way. Women prefer extroverts because extroverts exhibit stronger male polarity which turns on their attraction signals. On a subconscious level women are all turned on by the same things and being an extrovert makes these things more apparent.


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Great points.

I'm not a shy guy. I'm kinda in the middle, i guess. Just thought about what girls like/want, prefer.
There is not one single blueprint for all women. That is why it is better to refine your own personal game so it is flawless to any type of women.
I agree with this, however, I do think that there are some universal behavioral traits that a man can adapt that will make him near flawless with women. If tweaking is possible in that case, it's probably not necessary.


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I disagree with some of the posters here in that I think all women prefer extroverted men including the introverted ones.

One of the biggest challenges that a lot of men face is acting like an extrovert because they see people acting extroverted and assume that it's something they were born with. Well I think every kid is usually shy and reserved on the first day of skill regardless of how "extroverted" they appear when they're put into a familiar situation.

I think it's more likely to suggest that everyone starts as an introvert and only becomes an extrovert if the situation they're in requires them to be an extrovert. When you try to pick up women, you become an extrovert because it doesn't work any other way. Women prefer extroverts because extroverts exhibit stronger male polarity which turns on their attraction signals. On a subconscious level women are all turned on by the same things and being an extrovert makes these things more apparent.
Yeah obviously being extroverted works out better for most pick up artists but you can't deny a introverted style can can be just as effective.


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I think people don't understand the concept of introvert and extrovert when they say that women prefer one or another.

Introverted people use energy when they are around people. That doesn't mean we don't like company, or we're not sociable. I absolutely love being around people, I just need a little time to recharge after it.

Extroverted people get energy when they are around people. That doesn't mean they can't be alone, but they need company to feel really energetic.

Introverted people tend to focus on what's with them, and extroverted people tend to focus on what's around them. And here's when confidence comes in:
-A confident introvert will only care about his business, and how to succeed with it. His charm is his assertive, yet mysterious vibe.
-An introvert with low self-esteem will play different scenarious in his head, already planning B-C-D plans in case of (very likely) failure.

-A confident extrovert will be able to tell great stories and be the center of attention. His charm is his social value.
-An extrovert with low self-esteem will look at other people around him and try desperately for attention with little to no success.

Any women will prefer the confident introvert, over the pussy extrovert. Confident introvert vs confident extrovert is completely personal preference.
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On a subconscious level women are all turned on by the same things.
This is not true at all. Not in the sense that you are trying to put it. First, even if we talk about only heterosexual women, we need to take out the masculine type, who prefers weaker men. Then we need to focus on the personality traits that really all of these, feminine women want. And we can conclude that there is hardly anything except for confidence, humour, and sexual presence. None of these are related to being extroverted-introverted in any way

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