Lol all this No fap stuff sounds like nonsense...

But i could see why it works haha. I'm going to try it starting tonight. I wanted to say that I will fap tonight and start the nofap tomorrow...but the earlier the better I guess.

I have been going for about 2 weeks now BUT instead of no fapping at all I just edge it. I go until the very edge but back off the last second and stop there without going to the point of no return. Is this okay to do? Does it still constitute as a no fap?

Cool. I'm past 1 week now, since a couple of hours. And that depends bro, it's not called PMO for nothing. Sure, you don't orgasm but you still view pornography and masturbate.

As long as you don't ejaculate, you're fine. Trust me.

Orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. If you do kegel exercises and pull you hips back when it feels like you're about to cum, you'll orgasm AND 'stay dry.' It feels amazing AND you have multiple (usually three, but always two) as a result.

Sounds good, eh?

The only caveat you must be aware of, though, is that LOOKING AT PORN IS BAD. Fap all you want, but stay away from that shit. At least the hardcore porn, anyway. Stick with softcore or lesbians. This will give your reptilian brain a better idea of what to expect in the real world. Specifically, you'll anchor sex to the process of foreplay that 1) you'll really need to go through in the real world, and 2) will MULTIPLY HER PLEASURE FROM YOU when you actually do it.

Note: This is obviously not a substitute for actually developing yourself and getting laid for real.

Dunno, man, but as much as possible I stay away from it, buuuttt, when the door is closed and when I'm in my room alone, I can't resist to choke the chiken... LOL! But i'm trying to stay away from it.

Anyway, Sometimes when I don't fap for days, I feel better, more sexual vibe, more confidence, Sometimes when I fap, I'm feeling much better. Dunno, if it's real, maybe it's all in your head when you think about fapping.

Just fap whenever you like if it would make you feel better. If it doesn't then stop it.

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Does blowjob count? (as losing libido, when fap)? Because i have believe, that my balls should be held every night and day.

From what I've heard, the no fap is irrelevant, it's the porn that is a problem. I read somewhere that when we watch porn, the most primal part of our brains can't tell the difference and actually believes we just had sex. This is the same part of your brain that controls the majority of your sex drive, so it is no coincidence that watching porn would have negative effects on your sex drive.

My friend and I are doing a challenge for the month of may, where we can masturbate as often as we like, provided that we don't look at porn, which we define as any pictures/videos of people actually having sex (oral, anal, vaginal, etc.) The results have been AMAZING! Within a few days of doing this, it was clear that women were looking at me differently (apparently they've been looking at me this way all along, I just never noticed because of the chronic masturbation) and I felt more motivated, more alert, and overall just better. I'm on day 11 now, so we'll see how the rest goes.

I think it's a good act of discipline that everyone should try, I can promise you that you will not be dissappointed.

For me fapping is self destructive and I say this as someone who cannot stop feeling the need to cry. There I said it. My self-destructive habits come from my fucked up neuro-chemistry. Not fapping is almost impossible if I am alone and online. It all goes back to the same thing. Hurting myself/oneself/yourself coincides with too much masturbation. Look I have said it before because there is nothing else to say. It sucks, BIG TIME. You are not me and I know if I was right in the head, I would probably only jerk 1x every 6-10 days. This sucks for me, do not make it suck for you. No fap is, if you are having sex enough. If not well, as long as you are chill, who the fuck cares. Fapping to be chill is basically relying on a drug, literally. For me, Fighting Game Community stuff, Magic: the Gathering and other pointless bullshit is me trying to soothe the endless feeling of needing to cry, it never lasts; and, it is as bad this day as the day it started in August 2008. However, you are not me. Your head has not, almost, forced you to fap, like mine. (That sounds really shitty, but it is the unfortunate truth). NO Fap is real. Once you conquer the AA and start pulling... Kezia Noble, Gambler, Sinn, Adam Lyons, RSD etc will be the ONLY videos you ever watch.

Look, having my sanity taken from me is awful because I know how it has stunted my maturity and prevented me from cashing in on all of this self-help knowledge I have gained since it began almost six years ago, but again, you are not me, you can do what I, as of yet, cannot. The best to all of you

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