Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 8:42 pm 
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thats just how it is, girls are flaky in general

i dont even ask for numbers, kclose, or pull or see ya when I see ya

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 14, 2013 8:30 pm 
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Keep in mind some people are not going to like you. Repeat that until you fully understand it. Some people will not like you.

A lot of anticipation goes into reading text messages, and it sucks when the words are not what you are wanting to see. But again, refer to the first part of my post.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 15, 2013 1:39 pm 
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I dont play the texting game unless it's kinky or dirty, there's no physical way of escalating or getting her turned on and using a device to communicate with women instead of actually being there doesn't say anything positive about your courage. Take rejections and failed attempts not as a loss, take them as gained experience points (It will make rejections feel less disheartening in future attempts), a real waste of time is not trying at all, because you get nothing if you put in nothing. Thats whats wrong with people, society has made us all afraid of or take rejection personally, don't allow society to stop you going for what you really want in life, afterall, sex is ONLY 2 adults playing an +18 game and having fun and rejection is al part of life anyway (Interviews ect) As Einstein once said, the only way to fail is to give up

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 16, 2013 7:17 pm 
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This might have been due to 2 things:

1) It's either she was tipsy as you said. As we all know, anyone can run up to a tipsy girl and take her number. Trust me, it works fine for them to get rid of guys. They give you the number and then they never return your calls. It's normal and happens a lot to many guys.

2) She was interested at the time, but by the time she woke up, the interest was gone.

Both ways, you should have built more trust with her. Try to work on more exciting topics to discuss and attract girls. It's never the looks, always the style and delivery of talk.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 1:41 am 
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I'm sure many guys have given out their number and then changed their minds and said they're not interested/I have a girlfriend etc etc and forget the girl completely so why are you acting like Big Mary's when it's done to you? Wind your necks in. Some women like you some don't. You like some women, some you don't. It's as simple as that. Trying to get her to change her mind is just bullying her. Avoid, avoid, AVOID.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 18, 2013 9:47 pm 
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In order to become really great with this, you need to detach yourself from the outcome of every approach.
It's a shitty situation for you if you place your general well-being on a girl that you just met, that is weak. Therefore you should improve yourself, detach yourself from the outcome.
I heard a great quote once "I didn't get rejected, i just found out if she has good taste in men" :D

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 21, 2013 6:55 pm 
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Hey dude, this is common.
So common, there's a word for it, it's called giving you "wood"
Basically, a useless piece of paper with a number on it. Girls do it to be polite.

If you ask for her number and she's not interested, she has 2 options.
She can either say no to you in person, and risk you getting more aggressive about getting her number. (MORE UNCOMFORTABLE FOR HER)
OR she can give you wood, and then reject you over text where you can't harass her physically. (LESS UNCOMFORTABLE FOR HER)

Remember, although the guys on here all respect womens' many boundaries (thus all the clever techniques we have to bypass them the right way, a way that actually makes her feel good), there are douche bags out there who are too aggressive and harass girls, so girls must protect themselves. We're bigger and stronger, and she doesn't know you, so women have evolved defense mechanisms. One of them is giving you her number but rejecting it later. (Thus, you can NEVER assume that giving a number means interest)

Tired of getting wood? Try this. Escalate to the kiss before getting her number. If you chat, flirt, and end up kissing her (well) before you part ways, you can get the number right after the kiss and she'll remember how good of a kisser you are and text you back.

Get back out there.


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