I was sitting next to a on the bus then 5min in I asked if she went to Dorsey high as an opener she said no then we both just went back to stranger what did I do wrong

you didn't keep talking

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Two words: Carpe Diem

I felt dumb because she didn't go to the school and I didn't expect her to say no what should I do to keep conversation it feels like that was a horrible opener

"Ah wow, you look a lot like someone I went to school with. Where did you go?"

You should have opened sooner too, he who hesitates masturbates!

Hey thanks make sense once it's already said

Alright for starters here you asked her a "yes no" question right of the bat that to me is not an opener. It's easy for a girl to just say yes or no and end it there. Personally I would have opened with something like "why are you riding a bus? Are you a well dressed hobo?" Just off the top of my head

^unless shes a HB 10 that obviously looks too good to be on a bus, thats a terrible line.

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Two words: Carpe Diem

I had this, got some great advice but the general message was grow some balls... That said i've only got half a sack at the moment. Once the moment passes I just can't open a girl even if I go through a routine. My body language just isn't alpha anymore- I become the geeky kid from year 6 not Sherlock the cocky-funny guy who you can't get a thing past.

PM me if you solve the problem please as it is my major sticking point.

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Read, deduce, sarge.

you: Did you go to bla bla high school?
Her: No? (how did she say no? did she seem puzzled?)
You: That's where I went, and you look so familiar! (answer her puzzled look)
You: So what high school had the pleasure of teaching you? (give her the feeling shes somehow awesome without saying it)

See how this is going? I can do this so easy on a keyboard, my issue is the face to face. i seem to clam up quite a lot. I am getting better. Practice, practice. The other day my lunch meeting didn't go as well as i'd liked. I totally choked on a kiss close (i think she was offering). Later I went to talk with another women, and got some light kino, and very playful suggestive with her. It gave me a little confidence boost just to make her smile. I know I need to work on my comfort level around women, that is why I am hear. Keep on brother!