Hi,

I think I finally quit with all this, I'm trying to be asexual from now on hehe. I've broken up a 4 year relationship about 7 months ago and haven't had sex once since then (been asked twice, I said no because the girls weren't hot enough).

I'm not an ugly guy at all (but I'm not a hunk either), I just seem to have lost all motivation trying to meet women. My daily routine consists of working (I'm an actor/music producer, go figure) and hitting the gym, and I don't want to be bothered there. I said goodbye to all the friends I used to hang out with (due to their negativity) and so I don't really go out anymore or hang out with anybody. I used to game by myself and had some success, but again, lack of motivation now.

Considering I've reached the lowest of lows with women, what would you suggest? The lack of sex is bothering me, I just don't seem to find any motivation anymore. If you ask me to be motivated about my career, I am motivated through the roof, so it's bizarre really. Should I just cut my dick off and call it a night? Hehe.

Everyone goes through such cycles at some point or other. Your situation is further complicated by a long relationship that has still only relatively recently finished.

What I would do is not quit as such, but drop off, and sort your social life out. Giving up negative friends is all well and good, but it means nothing if all you do is sit home alone all the time instead. Go out for the next two or three months, go out, get some friendship groups sorted, join a sports club/evening class something like that, make new friends, go to new places, chat to everyone. Then in two or three months time you'll start to be enjoying your social life more and the more social you are I tend to find the more interested in meeting women you are.

Seriously watch Rockys speach to his son from the latest movie. Watch it 100 times!

Slap yourself, get back on the horse and stop being a whiney little girl!

Anyway, sorry for seeming harsh but come on man! Quitting is what losers do. You are better than that!

You're right, I'm not that kind of guy. but like the speech said (first time I see it), I stopped being myself. Thanks I appreciate it.
You're right, maybe I should join a sports club, I mean I am a sports guy so it would be a good option for me, or I could take some more acting classes and meet people there. I've been feeling like shit lately but I gotta snap out of it.

Still feeling like shit, I think I'm gonna quit after all, find a hole in Tibet and dig myself in lol.

I guess I found a date with an HB8 today... I still got my head above water, woohoo!! She's doing her masters in neuroscience, but I don't think she realizes that she just got mind fucked hehe. Wish me luck.

Update: I was so motivated that I setup dates with 4 different girls, I guess when I put my mind into it, I make it work.