well theres this girl who i found on facebook, and ive known her since kindergarten. i messaged her and added her as a friend, she messaged back with a nice positive response (but didnt accept my friend request, wierd) anyway thats just to give you a little back ground info, in this conversation that ive started, how can i demonstrate that im the alpha male? if i cant do it in the conversation, what can i do to demonstrate that im the alpha male that may not be part of the conversation, maybe something on my wall? thanks for any replies.

This is a paradox Spar. A Alpha male is a guy who will not put tons of energy into one single female to get her attention. He will try what he can but will set limits as to what he does to attract a woman. He will under no circumstance cross these limits for any woman. What you want to do is the opposite. You want to go beyond what any guy should and win her over. That's neediness and that's not Alpha at all. What I would suggest you do is be an Alpha male. This is done by telling her exactly why you messaged her. If you want to see how's she like now and hang out you tell her that. Ex: "I remember we were in Kindergarten and haven't seen you since then. We should hang out sometimes.

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You sent the friend request too soon. It can come off as needy or weird. Make sure the conversation is well established, then ask to add when you build that comfort. Better yet, tell her to add you.