Again - I am not speaking about that highschool style coolness lol, leave that to kids. When I say cool I meant sure of yourself, you just go alone and you feel like fish in the water there (as opposed to some that feel uncomfortable because they are alone). Those who feel uncomfortable may/will advocate against going alone. Thats what I wanted to say

When I go alone to the bar/club I feel as good and as "in place" as if I were with friends. Many people do not feel that comfortable and some people are even afraid to go alone because of that. They simply do not have that "cool" to pull that. So they will advocate against sarging alone.

I don't have any guys here to go out with. I'm still new in town and the few friends I've accumulated would NOT be good to bring along. They're nice pals to hang with, but not to game along side seeing that they'd fall apart.

I feel the most natural going solo. I actually think it's fun! But I only do it during the day. I don't think I'm good enough to go alone at night. Just me for now.