Okay lads, I've rarely heard any girl swearing and I think it's pretty ugly to see a girl swearing, but I am wondering if it's having any effect on them if they hear the boy they hang with, swearing like shit.

There's an old saying in pick up "Be different or forgotten" As nearly all guys swear I would say it's best not to. You don't hear an Hb say "I really like him because he swears all the time" to her friends so there's no intrinsic advantage in doing so.

Plus by not swearing and in so projecting that circumstances which create emotional reactions in people don't effect you, you're projecting a high value and alpha cool frame. Girls like that.

As a rule of thumb you should never swear when first meeting her. It leaves a bad first impression and she may be a non-swearing type and become put off or offended by it. If she is a swearer herself then you can be certain that she won't be offended by you doing it. But you should never swear more than her. Also, you can break out a "shit" or a maybe even a "fuck" if you feel like you are coming across as too reserved or being labled as a nice guy. Using curse words can actually make you look cool if you use them right.

Mystery says that if a girl becomes confused by your openers, and thinks you are taking a survey or are some sort of entertainer or employee, you can bust out an f-bomb as way to show them you are not on the job and are just a normal everyday joe.

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A girl may not say "I like him because he swears all the time" but I've never really heard a girl reject a guy for swearing(and I live in Utah ultra conservative Mormon state). A man curses a boy doesn't, you shouldn't curse every sentence but once in awhile letting it slip after a girl gets to know you doesn't hurt your chances.

For me the target depicts the diction involved. If you are talking to a punker the girl will be turned off if you are dealing with a good two shoes. Saying "Golly that dude was crazy!" won't get her attention like "Dude that guy was fucking nuts!"

The environment can certainly help you figure out which language you should use but that doesn't mean that it does mean you should never curse outside of the environment.

Most guys don't curse to present themselves as good guys but I've noticed that if you want to be different cursing here and there isn't a bad thing. If you are dealing with a girl you want to fuck, she better be willing to say fuck or I doubt you'll get to fuck her without marrying her.

In my opinion it isn't that you should curse all the time my point is cursing will make you stand out because most men change their behavior in front of women, such as not cursing. If you are who you are when she isn't or is around then she'll see you as more confident and more comfortable in your own skin rather than masking your behaviors and looking incongruent.

I don't curse a lot around women but using it here and there to emphasize the situation can certainly help or hurt, learning to read her comfort level and understand when she curses will certainly help build rapport.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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