| Verbal Escalation
Here is a guide on how to verbally escalate
1st principles – Mindset
1:/ If she is on a date with you she wants you to lead and seduce her and ultimately take her to bed.
2:/ If when you are talking to her, within the first 1 minute, if you get any reaction other than total indifference, she wants you to take her to bed
3:/ You CANNOT fail / be slapped / be awkward , embarrassed about escalating .
If you have the right mindset and bear in mind points 1 & 2 above.
To reinforce this, I can tell you that I cannot remember ever getting a bad reaction from escalation. EVER. I’ve had knock backs (approx .5% but that is a guess), but realistically it hardly ever happens. And I have NEVER had a “wtf are you doing” reaction.
This is to bring home the basic point that (i) Women want to be seduced (ii) You cannot fail by getting a knock back, it means nothing.
2nd principle – The importance of escalation
Escalation = sex. Aside from approaching, escalation is the number 1 thing you must do, and do well, in order to get laid consistently.
Verbal escalation
Fun little tricks to turn things around quickly
I have always used what I call “sexy cocky” (actually I just made that term up)
You can throw it into the conversation, and it transforms the nature of the interaction instantly….Like throwing in a hand grenade!
Some examples – of course I wanna fuck you, best pair of tits I’ve seen in the last few days
Jesus look at your ass, like 2 puppies fighting in a sack
I just pulled those out of my ass, and they’re not very good, but see what you’re doing is (i) Making the convo sexual , bringing it onto that plane (ii) showing social intelligence by throwing in humour and (iii) (importantly) negating the impact of her beauty by using bathos.
Basic principle is – compliment – withdraw by negation / downplaying in a humouros way.
Mishearing
Mishearing what she says in a humourous and sexual way
Eg if she mentions a word that rhymes with a rude word, throw it back at her
Rude word candidates – prick, dick, cock, balls, thigh, head , (you get the idea)
Eg – I gotta go to the bank —- Becomes – whaaaaat you want to give me a wank??
It doesn’t matter if it sounds totally different – the more outrageous, ridiculous the better
Smooth verbal escalation
Start off slowly – almost coy. Remember that if you put up some sort of imaginary barrier, or pretend that you are almost reluctantly succumbing to her, then you are onto a winner…
E.g. When you’re on a date…Say something like “I must admit when I saw you wearing x y z, or when I saw you standing there looking like that…” I got a it carried away…Then go a little quiet, like your mulling it over / fighting against it. Withdraw. 2 steps forward, 1 back.
Observe the reaction , change topic, then bring it up again..
Now you can escalate more , but don’t go too far. I don’t advocate telling telling her too much dirty stuff – but you must of course calibrate to each girl. However through experience I have found the following:
Don’t reveal your whole hand, and don’t keep hammering away with it..It should underly the interaction, create sexual tension. You shouldn’t be talking for more than a few minutes about it. Less is more, in some ways.
Make her seduce you!
Now, when you are sure , and when she responds, you can play with it. You can pretend not to notice the IOI’s and make her work on escalating on you…This is a great thing to do, I do it a lot but IMO you need enough experience , because what you are trying to do is make her think she is seducing you, but in reality the whole time, you are actually leading the interaction and prodding her in the right direction… _________________ The natural "Steve" who trained Richard La Ruina (Gambler)
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