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Your goal is to open the woman in a comfortable manner, how is adding "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" helping her achieve comfort? This almost sounds like you are trying to get rejected.
When reading this, it seems to me that you express that game is only about making comfort with a girl. Your game might be builded up on comfort, and it even sounds like it goes very good for you, which is awesome. however i think it is wrong that gaming is only about comfort, though it might be that case for you, for me and most likely 90% of PUA it is not that case, therefore i think it is wrong for you to express that comfort is the key. it could confuse someone who is very new to this.
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And yes you can open a woman with you are beautiful, I now understand when you can and can't. There are certain moments when you can get away with it and other moments when you will get destroyed, however your body language directly relates to the message received. So if you say it "You are beautiful" to a woman, you better have the confidence to not place her above you. A perfect example is Ryan Phillippe in Cruel Intentions when he tells a woman "You are Beautiful, let's go to lunch." His confidence and his mindset were obvious, he was able to do it because she considered him higher value than her.
This however, i could not agree with you more! i personally think that way to many people is worried about what to say instead of how to say it. My personally opinion is that is totally the same as yours on this subject, i could not put what you just wrote better my self! and i think that this is the key to gaming! so beautiful written!
My comfortable line applies to the compliment, my point was why ruin a compliment with a line like that. The point of a compliment is to make them feel good. Sorry if you misunderstood but taking it out of context really throws the line off.
Comfort isn't the only way to get laid but if you look at what happens through out a normal courtship process there are 3 big parts: Building/Being Attraction, Comfort/Connection, and Sexual Escalation. Each separate area can get you laid, I wrote and article on it here
http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... scalation/ , but combining the three can make you become a powerful seducer, far better than just a PUA. So I do believe if want to seduce a woman you should learn to build comfort and a connection. If you know how to do all 3, especially at the right time (involves reading them), you will be very good with women. This means learning to get a large percentage of the women you approach.
There isn't just one way to pick up women but there is an easier way and a harder way. I've learned this model from studying a ton of other models and experiences. I understand if you don't like the model because of style like 60 YOC, Gunwitch, and Stelar, but that doesn't make it untrue. I'm probably one of the scarier natural style guys out there because I'm so good at in each area. Could you imagine someone who can do all 3 at will and know when to do it, I do alright.
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