Me and my girl broke up, now she tells me some pretty nasty things in emails: saying I lied to her and led her on and that I'm full of shit.

Yeah, I kind of have a way of talking so it sounds good but then doesn't really commit me to anything, I'm an expert at it. Everything i say has two meanings. It's scary sometimes, but now she wants her money back anyway.


So should I feel bad or just say, Im married to seduction and that's how it is? I dunno, being a self acknowledged bad person just kind makes me uncomfortable, how do I get any love in the world with that attitude, even from friends that dont have anything to do with my relationship?

At the same time I just love the chase, gives me this thrill, I've never met a girl that could give me more pleasure than that initial seduction. That's why I can't stay in line or commit much afterwards. I try not to totally lie but I definitely am not one for clarifying expectations before things get going. Kind of part of the excitement that we don't know I figure.

Tell her you spent her money on beer and thats why you don't remember her giving you any money.

I don't mean that literally, I mean she was with me and now she wishes she hadn't been.

Although saying that would be hillarious, I don't think she'd find it funny though.

In that case,

If the chase is your thing go chase someone else. No point staying in something that doesn't excite you.

You just got a free exit. Time to go and juggle girls.

Most people don't really get pissed about what you do. They get pissed when you lie or sneak around about it.

Most girls, if you tell them "I'm not really looking for a relationship", there are fewer excuses for hostility when it's over.

I've never full out led anyone on. I've had girls mad because they wanted more and I didn't, but I always told them, and so I have fewer scars to show for it. Maybe I also have fewer girls to show for it too, because some girls have said "yeah, I can't do it like that", and it's over before it starts.

It's up to you.