so for example if i want to challenge her to be more fun. do i just tell her "you should be more fun" or is there a subtle way to do it? thanks guys.

i usually say: "so how spontaneous are you?" in a confident + cheeky smiling way

HB will probably say: yeh im spontaneous or i am pretty spontaneous
(its rare for her to say no because that would mean shes straight up admiting shes a boring person)

And then my follow up question would be:

"okay lets find out, if i asked you, are you a down to earth girl, would you say yes or no?"

Again she'll shyfully say yeh i kinda am or yeh i am

Then you can do alot things after this. Go for the Kiss close or number close or isolate her, or ask her to go somewhere with you right there and then, have fun!

Most importantly its your frame and not hers so you have her hooked to you

Soncheese x

I'd ask a girl something like. What do you enjoy doing, where do you usually go?
Just a simple boring question and then when she responds I'd ask her. Are you really that boring? and then they start qualifying to you

OR

I'd ask her so what do you do/ what do you study? and whatever they say I'd ask them second question. Do you like it or you're only doing it for the money?

You can challenge them with a game or a bet. Whatever you can think of really

another thing you can do is challenge them, which works pretty well for me.
for example: 'i bet you arent fun!..'
or if you wanna be more forward: 'i bet you're a bad kisser'
usually leads them to qualify or challenges them.
however, in my experience it works better with girls who are a little more confident. i have had shy girls freeze up when i challenge them like this!

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Just be real and ask her what she does for fun.

And if it ain't fun, tease her about it and challenge her to be MORE fun by doing reverse psychology.