Hey everybody. This is my first time posting on this forum. Iv been at game for a few months now. Iv stuck with the natural approach, I find routines simply get in the way. So far only mild success a few dates, some kclose, and numbers arent really a problem. I find that my success largely is dictated by mood at the time.

Iv found that its very easy for me to get a fun playful conversation going and keep it moving when im interacting with a girl I have no interest in. Its like im just there to have fun and have zero expectations beyond enjoying myself. I am occasionally able to pull in her freinds and find someone I am interested in and go from there. I also have alot of cute freinds I hang out with on a regular basis that im able to maintain this vibe with no problem.

My question is this how can i find a way to keep that mentality of not caring from the start with anyone i meet. More specifically to a college bar/party setting. Thanks guys

That's it mehn!!! You're already doing it ... Just keep on having a lot of them around you. When you've got a lot of oranges in the basket, you wouldn't be bothered about a particular one, would you? Good answer in your mind! So, just play the social game with a lot of them...

Don't know, but think it has a lot to do with the other person and the effect they normally have on you. I mean I know what you mean by being really cool without expectations with a girl you're not into, but with a girl that's over whelmingly beautiful that's a different story. All of a sudden you care about what she things, makes you act all AFC and before you know it the smell is broken. Really does suck. So PM when you find a solution, cause I need one too lol