Ok.. for the thread name, you could advice me into Dale Carnegie..

But I mean:

I have a good friend, with who I hang out, but he's inserted into another group of guys, where I'm not strange, but not great friends neither..

I feel they are my only option for hang out friends.. I've been trying to be friendly later, and trying to make new friends, but being acquaintance is one thing, becoming hang out friends is another..

I want to have options.. I want people inviting me to go out, night and weekend days too..

But I don't seem to get intimate enough with anybody for them to consider me a real friend.. again, men and women..

I don't even want to f-close any girl right now, I just want to be more social!

Im on the exact same position as you are. Ive been researching and the problem might be that we are lacking a connection. We need to find common likes and dislikes with people so we can feel connected and therefore "friends". For example, you might bump into someone that would love you if you invited him/her over to do something, but you wouldnt do it cause you dont feel "friendship" and it would be awkward to you. So basically you need to get that connection developed. HOW TO DO IT? well... you can help me out by researching hehe.

haha
yeah..

tonight I'll hang out with 3 girls.. I will try to be their cool guy friend.. someone they can trust..
Lately I've got this new philosophy of trying to make every girl my friend, instead of trying to seduce them..
idk if it will be a charm for me, or if I'll get into friend zone with them..
let's see..

Learn to connect with people. If you want to make people like you all you have to do is make people have fun. Be witty, be non-threatening, smile, be funny, gracious, humble, and interact freely. I get a ton of love everywhere I go by just being fun and outgoing. Fun is contagious so people like people who have fun.

I can write all sorts of stories I have but what it comes down to is you just need to be the guy who raises folks up just like you Carnegie talks about.

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