Yo peeps,

I am really attracted to a 22 year old girl who is working at the bar of the gym. She very well shaped, got a cute face and a nice smile. Only sometimes she can be a little bit grumpy. Like it looks like she is angry but she act normal.

Always when we see each other we laugh and we talk. And a month ago, her roommate gave a birthday party and she invited me too. At the party of her roommate we shared numbers and we started texting. I notice she's not very outspoken but i can feel her interest.

Till last week we constantly texting and last thursday the talking came closer and she invited me to her home at 2 am. Her roommate was on vacation. I had to work the next day from 7 am, but i said to myself fuck it, lets go!

I was over at her place we talked, watched a movie and went to bed. We talked again, slept in each others arms. It was intimate but no kissin or fuckin. I hoped that would be the next step when I will see her.

After the appointment we still texted. And she really liked that i slept with her and she want to meet again. But yesterday I suggested to drop by her home. But an hour after my text she she said she was at a girlfriends home and that we better could meet another time. From then we didnt text anymore.

Of course i can suggest another date, but i dont want to overcome to pushy. I see the girl 3 times a week at the gym and i still want to see her personally and of course sex her.

How can I play it, that she will text me again and she will invite me over again......?

so... you slept.... in her bed.... and it was two am and she had invited you over because her roommate was out of town..... but you didn't even kiss?

Unless I'm missing something you didn't escalate and that's the problem. She probably thinks that if there's going to be anything physical beyond 'laying in each others arms' shes going to have to make it happen and that can be a turn off for alot of chicks... after all if you're on mpuaforum you should know its your job to escalate.

Don't let her attitude or something she said stop you from at least TRYING to escalate... go for it and let her say no....

I'll go out on a limb here and say that you should escalate ANY time you find yourself alone in a girls house and ESPECIALLY in her bed... you only look like a chump if you don't...

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Yeah, OkieDoke is right here. Next time, if a girl invites you to her place (only you and her), it does not have to be 2 am, it translates to "I want to f*ck you".

Take it easy, I had to learn this lesson too.

I think it is a good way

Yeah... you could be a little more forward, she would like it. I'm not talking about texting her all the time for another date. Keep it casual and flirty. But the next time she says, let's watch a movie, you hold her and do this, it applies and works in every case I've been:

While she's watching the movie hugged, look at her temples and stare at them for 1 sec - not enough for her to turn her head to you, but enough for her to notice. Whisper something like "I like your temples" (it doesn't even have to make sense) and give her a kiss.

This does two things. First, physically, you are above her, because your mouth level is at her eye level. From here, second, she will either respond by directly turning her head to you, and from the way she looks at you, you'll know she'll be ready for a lip kiss. If she doesn't turn directly, which in most cases, continue putting little kisses down across her cheek, head to her neck, or corner of lips. Then she has to turn.

The above is not mostly a technique around the girl's thinking - it's a fix for your thinking (or the fact that it wasn't present at all).
Have fun practicing

Thanx 4 the tips guys.

The next date keep this in my head surely.

The point now is, she dont seem very interested anymore. We didnt see each other for about 20 days.

What are good subtle ways to attend her and invite her to my place?

I dont know whats the big deal around a kiss..
Especially if your watching a movie already hugged with her..
A few sniffs of her hair.. massage on the back of her neck and then just kiss her neck gentley and work your way up to the mouth... if you did most things right up to that moment a kiss should be a very natural progression..

But it is a huge ice breaker.
After the first kiss i always get this both relaxing and exhilarating "I`m in" feeling.

and another thing.. you should enjoy teasing her... for example..if your`e sitting close on a sofa and you sniff her hair and say something nice...(or prefably overly nice and sarcastic) she knows a kiss is coming..

I`ve had times i delayed the first kiss (on purpose) for so long a girl would literally suddenly snap and jump on me(Wanting to get it over already)

Good luck

Yep by no escalating, you are gonna fall into friend zone, you showed lack of confidence, and lack of escalation, she will lose a lot of attraction... Hope i am wrong, and it works out, but in my experience big hole to get out of... http://60yearsofchallenge.files.wordpre ... n-vibe.pdf

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