Anyone who has been going out to meet women knows that sometimes you just seem to get “in the zone” when everything you do just seems to work for you and women seem to gravitate to you without you having to try. This often happens after a really positive and energetic day, or after you’ve felt yourself enjoying some new success. These things affect your emotional state, which is why we call this process getting (or being) “in state.”

QUESTION!

How do you personally get "in state" when your feeling shit?

This method is done by Tyler Durden and his crew in Real Social Dynamics.

Even at nights when you feel like shit or if you come to the venue late you can achieve reaching state.

The main goal is to "Have your success criteria being to approach or open a set". Basically, your goal is to open a set and that is it. Even though you get rejected or only stay for 2 minutes, you have still achieved your goal of opening. Therefore you brain only sees the upside and you build momentum. If you set your goals to high (getting numbers or taking a girl home) and you don't accomplish them then you gain negative momentum.

Tyler describes it as 2 hills you have to build momentum to climb up to.
To build momentum to reach the 1st hill, you approach girls you are not intimidated by. Have like 2 minutes conversation with a set and move on to the next. It is important not to take any breaks in between interactions because remember that you momentum build up is represented by hills. If you stop or stagnate on a hill your momentum will roll back down. Just keep approaching girls you are not intimidated by until you've reach the first hill. Tyler Durden has a 1st and 2nd hill because the momentum build up to reach the 1st hill is a warm up. Most people even stays in the first hill because they are still scared to approach girls they truly are intimidated by. This is called fucking the warm up, were you literally take home the warm up and fuck her and then regret it later. It sucks a lot, I did this twice and still regret it to this day O_o ... lol.

So after you've reached the 1st hill, you have to build up momentum to reach the 2nd hill. This can be achieved by approaching girls who you are intimidated by. But, again your goal is to open or approach girls, if you do this you brain continues to get proof of seeing the upside. Once you've build up the momentum to reach the 2nd hill, you will not fall back down the hill and stay in state. The results are magnificent! Literally girls will fall in love with you call you hot, cute, and sexy or the best guy she met that night. Literally your looks changes because the more your brain receives positive feed back that you are the shit, you believe more that you are the shit, and people will perceive you as the shit! Therefore changing your look. This is great news for people who have self esteem issues with their looks.

I do this method every time I game, and it works marvelously! This is taught by Real Social Dynamics and created by Tyler Durden. I believe their material is the best of the best and really really truly cares of improving peoples game to pick up chicks!

This method is very consistent and you will never have a shitty night again in terms of having fun while also gaming!

Sincerely

Donston