Well it happened, months ago i was starting to build up my confidence quickly, ya know, getting into the pickup game. I wasn't bad at it either, but then i hit one set that just annihilated me, shut me down so bad i gave up and reverted back to my AFC days, i don't even know where to start back up, i think i'd even be willing to meet with someone to start giving me some direction, i'm willing to admit it, I NEED HELP, bad, but i don't want to have to remember a specific set of lines, canned openers and the like, certain things that have to be said, i want to be able to work off of my natural qualities, can anyone help out?

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~Kidd~

the best thing you can do is just get back up and try again. Its a terrible feeling being shut down but the more you practice the better you'll get at being confident with yourself and naturally being able to pick up girls. Don't rely 100% on canned material cause that won't work, but stick to good openers and loosely follow a routine because it will work! Just keep trying and you'll get a natural feel on what works and what doesn't.

Where should I start, openers, i really got screwed up during this low period, i think i'm actually gonna do this, this is a callout for any natural pickup artists, in desperate need for a mentor in the novi, mi.

I'm broke and down on my luck, anyone willing to meet up like once a week and gimme a bit of help i'm a student who's willing to re-learn the ways of pickup, i've proven to be a pretty compotent wingman a few times

I'm mostly here to focus on natural game, but i wouldn't mind learning a couple tricks in NLP

anyone who can gimme a hand would be greatly appreciated

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~Kidd~

Shaker is 100% correct. You need to just go in again...and again...and again... I am a firm believer (and you'll hear me say it over and over again) that you need to extinguish ALL fear to get the most of your natural game.

Get out there and talk to some women, mate. It's going to take you a while but it is worth every single minute of it.

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I don't know if you've read anything by Gunwitch, but he talks about how you need to be horny for your target before you approach.

The reason for this is that the aggressive horniness should FAR outweigh any fear of rejection. When it does, the feeling of approaching your target will be that of a starving man in a field of buffalo. You'll be ready to just tear that shit up and will not give a fuck if some get away.