i am pre good looking, i can initially attract girls then through texting ill flirt and stuff. then when i meet them ill end up being too nervous and not have anything interesting of fun to say or do. just stupid small talk. i need to get passed this because at this point it seems the girl loses interest! help my fellow brothers

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TheRookie

First off, what are you afraid of when confronting a girl in person? If it`s rejection, then that`s something you got to overcome yourself by putting yourself out there.

There is one thing I guess that you are forgetting..

There is no need to win her over all over again - she's already there WITH you. She chose to be there on a date with you, because you already texted, you already talked, you already flirted..

Now it's up to you to take it to the next step.. don't repeat the process of seduction, just continue it!

≠ LD

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Go on a lot of dates. The more you do this, the easier it will get, and the less nervous you'll feel.

^This. I'm not gonna repeat it. Pretty much says everything.

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well it depends wher eyou are with the girl, is flirting as far as you got, if so then emotionally connect with one other through rapport stories (true stories of your childhood and other such moments which she can relate to.... beacuse everyone has been a kid at one point) so she will feel a connection and then mixed with kino and eye contact and shes yours... but thats only a small portion of ehat you could do, i know of an amazing product thats packed with content and can really help you and best of all its free, its here in the link itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/pickup-podcast/id212382281 its alot of podcasts but its helped me with almost if not every problem ive had from approach anxiety to day 2's if you try it let me know if it works for you man!

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

All great advice from the guys here.

Fuck as many girls as you can. Plow through all fear until it's completely fucking GONE!