Hey Guys,

forgive my title i wasnt sure what to write to convey what I wanna say. Basically I live in barcelona and this place is full of hot women, absolutely beautiful!!

I wanna be direct and honest cuase all this other shite gives me a headache, anyway I, to put it bluntly dont have the balls to approach a woman and go direct unless ive a few drinks in me. So Ive been using a technique that Sasha talks about to enable me to get to the stage where I dont give a fuck.

I saw this beautiful girl today waiting outside the metro, I wanted to chat to her, I heard her on the phone telling someone where she was and I presumed it was her boyfriend. but then a female friend arrived I was pissed off as Id blown my opportunity. Anyway there was a Burger King across the road, So I went in and asked for a Big Mac. Sasha taches that doing this type of thing desensitizes you from social aukwardness. So I though fuck it and I did it. To take it further, I asked some people where the Eiffell tower was, just to be aukward, a few moments after I asked though I said oh excuse me I mean...and said a landmark in Barcelona. Also I talked to some people asking directions and as I done so I pretended to pick my knose and look and the snot and then rub it on my t-shirt.

I now feel less nervous about talking to girls and am going to go back outside and do it again.

As a sidenote something very annoying happened to me. I was looking for my metro stop and asked direction as someone walked past without even looking at them, then when I looked it was a woman who was absolutely beautiful. She told me where to go and Im kicing mysef for not being direct with her. fuck!! This just makes me more determined though!!

Hope this post helps anyone who is in a similiar position as me. Go and do stupid things in social situations!!

Now I just have to go the next step and approach. Its nerve racking but itll be worth it!!

Jonge

Rasputin says in one of his videos, that the way he started not caring what people thought of him was that he strapped a dildo to his head and walked around in underwear in a busy city. At first he was really embarassed, but then found the humor in it. Whenever he feels awkward, he retraces his mind back to when he had a dildo strapped to his head walking around in just underwear. So basically, keep embarassing yourself, because in the long run it helps!

Hey Guys, I met up with a guy today from a Spanish site and we done some approaches. I did just one. He did 3. All our approaches were unsuccessful. It was cool metting a like minded person for the first time! I was quite nervous and did just one. When we finished I was going home but then thought fuck it and went back into town by myself. When I was there seen this really hot woman, she must have been around 32, Im 26. Anyway she looked so sexy and glamorous, I thought fuck it. So I went to her and told her tat she looked incredible and very beautiful. She said no,no, and started laughing and continued walking. I walked away but then I remembered what Sasha said about, if a gilr smiles shes interested even if she walks away. So a few seconds later I went back, and started talking again, she just chuckled to herself.I didnt know what to do so I just left. She was chuckling and smiling a lot. But I just dont have the experience to know if she was interested, maybe I should have been more persistent?? Later in the day I went to a supermarket and chatted to a girl that works there, we got on very well so I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink some time. And she gave me her number, she is a really hot spanish girl with a great body, a 9-10, woohooo!! Im a happy guy tonight!! Hope your all keeping well my fellow aspiring pua´s!! Jon ps. Brary, Thanks for the advice! But I don´t think Ill be doing that!

Body language will let you know whether she is interested. It will let you know whether she can be bothered. Body language is a must for natural game, you must know how to represent yourself and understand what they are saying with their body language. Whether they are attracted, bored, semi-interested, or completely uninterested.

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Late post, but I had a similar problem this summer several times. Try reading some general Body Language Books for a reference. I went to the local book shop and picked up a few on NLP and body language to throw at my personal library; 'Body Language for Dummies' and 'Body Language Secrets: A Guide During Courtship & Dating'. It was hugely benificial to me.