i realized that a lot of techniques talked about here come naturally when im feeling confident and happy with my life. i think thats the message these things give out to women as well. it kinda made sense once i thought about it . women all look for guys who are happy because it means they have a reason to be happy such as they live comfortably so they want to know more. the man is happy so he doesn't need anything from the women he just chooses her because he sees her as a fitting partner to mate with. for cavemen and what not the deal was if the man provides food and shelter the woman would bare his children. obviously nowadays its more complicated but this is just a thought.
now my question for you guys that have been doing this for a few years is do you guys feel like gaming is simpler than you did when you started? and if so can you explain the feelings you have now compared to the ones before?. im still fairly new to this but i want to confirm this because i overcomplicate things and i stress myself out and blow my chances with girls.

you answered your own question before you even asked it. Take care of you and women will see that you got it together. I can't believe you asked a question after answering it yourself. Trust your instincts bro. May the sarging be with you!

well i guess a better question would be how do i get my confidence up?or how can i feel more authentic? ive gone out a lot and met A LOT of girls especially since im living on campus at my college. but i still lack confidence in my self when it comes to mid-game. i want to be authentic so that i can stay consistant so i dont want to use routines plus most of the time i say em in the wrong tone anyway. im convined that all i need is confidence and everything will come naturally. my first day in college i was attracting girls left and right. i k-close and number closed but no f-closes yet. i need the right mentality for gaming while not feeling like a fake because it really makes interactions with girls stressful and awkward i.e not fun

As with many of my clients, your solution is your problem.

You have a great instinctual understanding of how it should feel and be for you. Ultimately it's not about women for you - it's about you.

And yet you are focused on perfecting the acquisition of women. This solution creates the problem you have.

This is simple. Learn to let go of the pua ideal and you will be happier. It is unnatural and unnecessary pressure.

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I think being a natural is something that guys work towards. Guys have start off learning the vasics and getting them ingrained. Once they're ingrained, then it's easy to put it on autopilot. Once most of the core skills are on autopilot, a guy is a natural who doesn't have to put much energy into getting the results he's looking for

yes, I think it just the same as many other thing u work in live....

u get what u give...the more time and the more technique u learn so the better u are at pick up....I feel that too, I think my game improved from the time I started this pick up, although there are still a lot to learn

I'm not here answer your question but to correct your statement in relation to "cavemen" as you put it. It disappoints me that most people still have no idea in the hunter and gatherer era women provided most of the food. While men when hunting and got food necessary to have proper nutrition, protein, they based on current data did not have a large enough success rate to provide enough food for women or a tribe/village overall.

There are a lot of theories on a good provider in the "caveman" era and I am sure they hold some true value, but women provided most of the food in the hunter and gatherer era. They were more consistent and because they could eat as they go, they didn't have to wait for men to bring home food at the end of the day when they were done hunting.

Women provided pretty much everything but the fertilization(sperm) in the life process. Men on the other hand merely tried to impress and show a women that he was a strong good mate that will survive and create good offspring. Today nothing has changed, women look for a man that can survive and create good offspring, the difference being they include what he can contribute to their offspring more long term.

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