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There are alpha things you can do, but to go around thinking you're in a constant state of alpha is being a tool. It's just like men wanting to be more manly. Do you want to shave with a buck knife? Drive a Ford F-150? You don't have to, because you are already a man!
One time in college, my friend was getting texts from this girl a few blocks over. He was hanging out with us, and she was telling him to come over NOW. He texted her back and said, "Sorry. I told my friends I would hang out with them, so that's what I'm gonna do."
A week later, when he was getting a BJ from the girl, she wouldn't take her top off. Now, this girl had an epic pair of twins, and my friend said, "You know what? I'm going home." He didn't even let her finish.
In both cases, my friend was demonstrating higher value. He was doing what he wanted to do. Any lesser man would've caved both times. But he doesn't walk around looking for a chance to DHV every second, or to be alpha constantly. There are times to shine and in-between, you just have to be the best version of yourself without putting others down.
It'd be like walking around thinking "I'm gonna be cool, I'm gonna be cool, I'm gonna be cool." Not very cool.
Agree with your point, not with the sample, your friend exhibits mm wanna be qualities not alpha qualities... Seems fake and calculated, the sample that is... That is not alpha, alpha is nothing more than a leader, and a strong man, that do not let people or women step all over him...
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