Im still new so i may be incorrect in my observations...but im here to learn feel free to correct me or add on.

Today i went to a job fair (im 18) to fill out applications. I bumped into a few girls i knew and interacted with them with very little interest shown even though i was interested in one.

Anyway i walked up to a table to talk to a woman(looked like she was in her 20's) giving out applications and talking about her job at old navy.She was Puerto Rican hb8( hb9 if she didnt have her glasses on) i acted fairly professional to give off a good impression, i was talking to her normal and made her laugh a few times ,in fact you could swear we were flirting(says my friend who was with me) even got her to change the subject(which was not my intention) , after all im just trying to get the job.

Obviously i didnt close her of course but i walked out with an eye opener.

i noticed a difference between the girls that i talked to in the beggining and the woman with the apps.Not only was i nervous with the first set but i was just simply talking as if i was pulling random words out of a hat. but when i was talking to the hb9 handing out applications i decided to pay attention to her body language at some point and was able pick out better ways to respond. i was also able to act more playful.

Another thing i found the guts to try was that i showed disinterest when she was talkin about bullshit by giving off an emotionless face and only responding when she said something interesting or that made me laugh. which i think forces girls to get your attention maybe?

i read something about tension here earlier that helped me with that.


Overall it was a fail but i walked out of there knowing the importance of reading body language an maybe a bit about tension.

Feel free to correct me if i observed wrong. Any help would be appreciated.

I flirt with whoever is around in any professional thing I do with a female working. It makes the interaction fun, n sometimes they hook u up with randomness. Body language n reading it, is all about really locking into the girl. Like don't think, just REALLY observe. You will notice the ticks, twitches, n attraction signals. If you play poker, its kinda the same thing when u r reading someone. You wanna watch n get everything they r putting out so u knowwhat moves to make. It goes the same for girls. The other day, I was talkin to a girl who is my boys cuzins friend. She was goingoff on attraction signals. She was playing with her hair, picking her wrist, rubbing her lips, basically just throwing signs at me. I only number closed, cause me n my boy had 2 girls waiting in the hot tub, n my boys cuz woulda tried to cockblock cause she is into me to (my boy told me).

Once you learn to quiet you mind, n not try to see shit, just lock in, u will see it all. If u r looking for signals, u will misinterpret shit in favor of what u wanna see. If instead you just really pay attention, the signals will be self-evident. Hope this helps buddy.