I have been learning pua for a year now and last few months it all started to make sense.
You see when I started learning pua I was already outgoing guy that was going to clubs for 7 years and I had little success with girls. So I started to read pua books and using pua material In the field and I have to tell you that it does work for us guys that are social freaks like me.
I was so determined to change my life so I started learning pua, went to gym, changed my diet.
I was going to the gym for 1 full year and I didn’t notice any change in my physical look I was still skinny-fat(183,75kg) I was when I started. I was very curios why I can’t progress and I told that to my trainer and told him about my diet and how hard I train and don’t get any progress. He told me that I might have some problems with hormones(I didn’t know anything about hormones at that time) and I should get them checked. I went to the clinic and got my testosterone checked and it was on the lower limit. After they doctors saw that my testosterone was as low as 60 year old men they sent me to do many tests and they found that I have pituitary tumor.
After that I started to learn about hormones and how they affect our behavior and physical appearance. You see the lower your testosterone is the lower is your value as a mate.
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"Since masculine men and feminine women are thought to produce the healthiest children and sex drive is higher when testosterone levels are also high, these findings suggest that men and women in hormonal states where their interest in sex is highest, show stronger attraction to high quality – or healthy – mates."
Dr Welling added: "We tend to think that attraction is relatively stable over time. However, our research shows that attraction is affected by fluctuations in testosterone levels."
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Temptation by testosterone
Women might be drawn to Brad Pitt types at the peak of their cycles for reasons related to evolutionary biology. Masculine bodies tend to have higher circulating levels of the hormone testosterone. While testosterone isn't necessarily a good thing in itself--research suggests that it can inhibit immune function, and eunuchs, who have low levels of testosterone, tend to live longer than normal males--its presence can be indicative of quality.
Masculinity could be "sexy for the same reason that the peacock's tail is sexy," said UCLA researcher Dave Frederick, who was not involved in the study. "Only males in good condition can generate these traits," because they require a great deal of energy and can only be sustained in healthy individuals, Frederick explained.
Men with hard bodies and sculpted jaws may therefore have better genes for producing better babies, so it would make sense for fertile women to be attracted to them.
Testosterone determines Alpha status in man. People that have high testosterone are born leaders and are prone to take high risks(that’s why jails are full of muscled guys that have high testosterone but low IQ)but girls also like everything about these guys because they are born winners. You see every time you win at something that involves strength your testosterone rises and if you are wining for long enough you will be more masculine because testosterone is anabolic steroid your body produces.
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The ‘winner effect’ has been studied in a variety of species, but only rarely in mammals. We compared effects of winning three, two, one, or zero resident–intruder encounters on the likelihood of winning a subsequent aggressive encounter in the California mouse (Peromyscus californicus). During the training phase, we ensured that resident males won all encounters by staging contests with mildly sedated, smaller intruders. During the test phase, the resident male encountered an unfamiliar, more evenly matched intruder that had experience winning an encounter and was larger than the resident. Testosterone (T) plasma levels significantly increased after the final test when they had experienced two prior winning encounters, and the probability of winning a future encounter increased significantly after three prior wins independent of intrinsic fighting ability. We hypothesize a ‘winner–challenge’ effect in which increased T levels serve to reinforce the winner effect in male California mice.
In evolution girls always wanted a strong hand that can protect her and that is the guy with muscles and high alpha status.
Now let’s just think for a sec why we guys with low testosterone are bad with girls.
We are total opposite of what women want , and they see as week losers that can’t protect her and make her children fed.
Now why we with low testosterone have bad inner game? Because we are not good for evolution we have bad genes and our physiological mind knows that, and it is denying us the ability to reproduce.
One friend of mine has good genes he started lifting 6 months ago and he did more in 1 month then I did in a year and he had bad diet.
Let me just talk little about him.
You see he was just like me bad with women skinny, no game and no success with women but now he is like
f-close killing machine(he is not a PUA)but he has flawless body language. We went out one weekend and he opened a girl with direct opener in a club(like every other AFC) soon he started to talk about sex so she freaked out and told him she has BF, so he showed her his big biceps and said “does your BF has this” she said “no” him again “then come with me” she took her to the car an F-closed her he did that 2 times already he showed me video from his hidden cam in his car.
Now things that happened this weekend that made me write this. We were out again in a club and one friend introduced us with 4 hired guns in a club (two of them wore HB7 and other two wore HB9)these 2 HB9 wore all over him doing kino with his biceps, they didn’t even listen to him he could read his shopping list and they would still wanted him. He gets numbers from girls and he doesn’t call them, why you ask me? I wanted to know so I asked
ME :Why don’t you call that hot girl from last weekend she was all over you?
HIM: I will have to take her somewhere and talk to her, listen her whine and then we might have sex it is to much work for one sex.
My mind was blown by that statement. If he only know how much work we other guys put in picking up girls and he doesn’t call because it is too much work.
I will soon be on testosterone injection after I get all the tests with hormones done and after they take out my tumor. When I started working out I said ”I will never take steroids” and now year after that my doctor will give me injection with steroids ”testosterone”. Isn't life strange?
If any of you have these symptoms: depression, fatigue, loss of lean muscle, fat accumulation, irritable, low libido(sex drive)
Visit your endocrinologist and tell him you have erectile dysfunction(even if you don’t) and he will check all important hormones.
Im not saying that PUA is not working, it is, it changed my life, I just wanted to say that there are some reasons why some of us are bad with girls and it can be cured with PUA and testosterone injection, thank god for that.