Basicly we are away from a LTR.

We constructed a friend relationship, but we are flirting with each other.

She's a HB 9.5. I want her ! Since she's not with her ex anymore, she parties a lot. But I'm sure (a lot of girls tols me) that she's still IN with her ex.

She told me to come to a festival in her place in June.

How to have her guys ?
I try to make the alpha guy, but I'm not sure it's working. She is writting a lot on my facebook wall, but in parties, she's not showing me a lot of interest (neither do I).

What can I do ?

She knows I went out with some girls on parties ...

get her isolated.

she and you are not showing ioi's because you're not letting each other. give yourself guys the opportunity to escalate things up. you can do that by being private with her

I think you're right, I have to get her isolated with me.

Maybe I have a plan. Right now, we will live in 2 different cities (50 km), but she is free during 1 month, while I'll work.

Yesterday night, we went out and talked about when I'll come for the festival with her, a AMOG, and me :

HER (Maria X) : It's gonna be very cool ! (her, gaming me) But I'm not sure you will find a place to sleep in.

ME : Yeah, I'm sure, I know a "Maria X", I'm sure I'll be able to sleep at her place, no problem.

AMOG : Yes, but you won't sleep in HER bed !

Her : (serious ton) Yes ! I'll put you in the "friend room". Shame on you, you won't be able to take a look at my very nice mini shirt ...

ME : But I didn't want to sleep with you ! (laughing)


She told me today :

HER :hey, next week I come to your city ( = next week can I come to your apartment ?)

ME : Yeah of course, we will have fun (or some shit like that).

So she will probably come next week, how to act ? Taking her to a party (because, it's one of our main "subject") ? And to sleep ? I want to make a plan, because I only have one simple bed (new appartment ... big shit !) !

Thanks guys for your help :-)

Shes coming to your apartment, your town, to hang out with you. What else must happen? Get a nice shirt, be friendly, charm her up, get some drinks going and read her body language, if her body language says yes, then all you need to do is to advance physically and let her know you want her.

In social situations, YOU need to to make the move on her, not the other way around.

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