This is a disclaimer: What your about to read is just a mind dump. It's one of the theories that I've played around with in my head that hasn't 100% formed into a tried and true method. This is under Natural Game because there are no real method to what I'm about to go in detail about, it is simply a product of your natural life style that you can incorporate into your game.
This is the corollary to "Vulnerability Game" that both me and Roz promote on the chat. It is seemingly the direct opposite of Vulnerability game but you can't have one without the other. What I'm talking about is
being an emotional pillar of strength.
What this means is having stability in your life, having a schedule, being emotionally at the right place, being a shoulder to cry on (I'm not saying be her bitch), and being an "emotional alpha male" of sorts. As you can tell this is not something you can just pick up and use tommorow in pickup, its a lifestyle, or a perceived lifestyle.
Woman are always having unnecessary drama in their life, in the form of other men, problems with their fellow women, problems in the workplace, ect. Assuming this, you can be surprised how quick she will flock to a person who is missing these things that she hates (although emotionally craves, albeit confusing to understand the emotional hamster wheel that is women). Your the person that will listen to her problems, occasionally laugh at the immaturity and unimportance of what is going on in her life. Occasionally tell her how her life makes you realize how good you have it.
Before going on I must address an argument that will without a doubt come up in contradiction to what I am advocating. "Wouldn't she friend zone you?" The simple answer to this is yes, but a more complicated answer would be no. This is just one of the many traits that you must demonstrate to her to "prove" your value/alphaness/attractivness. This might not work right away, maybe you will be temporarily friend zoned, maybe it will be permanent, or maybe you won't be friend zoned at all - It all depends on the rest of your game. By assuming the role of Pillar of Strength you will find women flocking to you as moths flock to light in the darkness. The secret is walking the fine line between a sexually viable partner and the person who gets told all about a womans guy problems.
Next issue that must be resolved is the power of "Vulnerability Game" and how it might shatter your status as Pillar. For those of you who are wondering what Vulnerability Game is look at my blog post and Roz's initial thread of it on the forum which I conveniently linked below.
my post -
http://themanwhore.tumblr.com/post/3439 ... nerability
Roz's Thread -
vulnerablility-a-female-perspective-vt7 ... highlight=
By revealing too much information about yourself/your insecurities/your problems/your issues/your instabilities/your weakness, you run the risk of shattering the Pillar of Emotional Strength that you have established. By walking a thin line with mixed vulnerability without ruining your reputation you should ideally be able to reap the benefits of both forms/styles of game. Each girl has her own idea of what is too vulnerable and what can be considered attractive.
The whole idea of this Pillar of Emotional strength is to radiate happiness and stability and bring it to the people who you associate with. I'm not saying eliminate spontaneuty nor be afraid to let your emotions take over, just not to let it become the focus of your attention (Spontaneuty is an attractive trait which should always be used and demonstrated).
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