First up is
not being intimidated by her (shit test/her looks/or her getting angry) remain calm always, don't fight fire with fire, she will try to dominate your frame at some stage (which is
"I'm an attractive/confident alpha male")
A very recent example of mine was I was standing at the bar with a friend and on my left was a friend of my friends sister, anyway she asked him if he was leaving her and his sister home later in a sort of (oh daddy can I use you credit card way) if you understand
Anyway I sort of laughed and she looked at me looking really not pleased and sort of aggressive, she said
"I don't understand is there something funny I said, whats the joke I don't get the joke here" now this is where the first line in this post comes into play, I held my cool, smiled and said
"you can't steal him tonight I'm trying to drag him to a house party!"
She completely flipped the opposite way and we had a short friendly debate on the times I was allowing her to get the lift and she put her hand up looking a high five, now how many of you guys would have cracked here and said sorry? I ask this because interenally I felt like oh shit, but externally I played it cool (and just so you know this girl is hot and runs with the main group in my town) fake it to you make it ya know
lol, also note that I gave a justified reason for laughing aswell which saved my ass
Teasing is a great way to break rapport, but people get it so badly wrong, they go out actively seeking thing to tease girls on (which is extremely attention seeking), I'm sure many of you have done this, I sure have... loads in the past! I've had girl so fucking angry at me before I thought I was about to get hit! I can tell you this right now atively going out of your way to tease does not work, maybe you'll get away with it here and there but in the long run you'll piss more people off than you'll care to imagine, the best teases are situational
Teasing E.g. (Hypnotica Infield Insider April Edition
Hes taking girls to the bar and they walk through a fart pocket, he says to one of the girls
"was that you?" (Brilliant I loved it!)
Leaving or talking to someone else is a great way to break rapport, sometimes if theres a girl I like and I can feel its on a high I'll leave and go talk to other people and come back later, this displays alot of non needy characteristics, another good way is to listen to what shes saying be like "ah ok cool" turn round and talk to someone else
Disagreeing (have your own opinions, likes and dislikes) don't be a walk over and agree with everything she says or wants you to do, if you dislike something say so, If you don't want to do something... Say so! stay true to what you beleave, offcourse this does not mean being an unflexible asshole, there is give and take in this and make sure you explain why you are in disagreement also ask her what she likes/dislikes about what you are talking about and be like
"ah ok I understand (why she likes/doesn't like that)"
Punishment and reward (I've already writen a post on this make sure to check out the video)
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(Ok I've left out a few things like leading and confidence, reason being if you are following the system or going for numbers, dates etc then this is leading and you will be building confidence with experience and you'll know how to handle situations when they pop up, there is more to it but if you master like life style etc but with all of the above you should able to figure it out yourself, also there is more to this but I don't want to go into stupid details/mental mastabation, you shouldn't even have to think about this shit just be aware of it, this is more than enough to see you through)
I also left things out like don't constantly run after her or try to push her into things or cry and moan when things don't go your way, if you have a brain at all and have any sort of maturity about you things like those will be no brainers
CHAT