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1. Realizing Your Dreams

“If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up someplace else.”
- Lawrence J. Peter

In order for us to achieve our dreams, we must have a vision of our goals. Writing down our dreams and creating a list of actions helps us stick to our plan. As it’s said “if you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it”. When we turn our goals into measurable actions, we gain clarity and are able to see the necessary steps we must take in order to achieve them.

Action: Visualize a life of your wildest dreams. What did you dream of doing when you were a child? What would you do if you had a million dollars? Create a vision for your goals and start breaking them down into small actions that you can take on a day by day basis.

2. Overcoming Fear

“It was a high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, “Always do what you are afraid to do.”
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The best way to learn something is to dive right in to it. When we overcome our fear of failure, we learn that only those who are asleep make no mistakes. Fear is the only thing keeping us from experiencing a life of love and fulfillment. If we make a commitment to an uncompromisable quest for truth, we will realize that as we grow more into the truth, our fears start to disappear.

Action: You must define your fears in order to conquer them. Create a list of everything you’re afraid of and start facing them one at a time. Make a commitment to yourself now to not let fear rule your life.

3. Intention and Desire

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become.”- Guatama Buddha

Our thoughts determine our reality. When we stop thinking about what we don’t and begin thinking about what we do want, our lives begin to transform. Instead of working against our desires and intentions, we move into alignment with them.

Action: Create a list of your intentions and desires. Wherever you go, take this list with you. Read it when you wake up and before you go to sleep.

4. Happiness

“Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances.”
- Benjamin Franklin

Happiness comes from an inner peace, understanding and acceptance of life; a perspective of truth that opens your eyes to the beauty of life all around us. Happiness cannot be achieved by external status, it must be an internal state that we realize when we see our innate perfection.

Action: Realize that happiness is a choice. In every decision you make ask yourself “how can I respond to make myself happy and fulfilled?”

5. Self Acceptance

“If a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” – Jesus

When we stop trying to be what we are not, we realize our authenticity. Before we had knowledge, we were completely authentic. We learn to use knowledge to measure and judge, which is a powerful tool we have as humans. However we create an image of perfection in our mind of what we should be, but are not. We confuse knowledge for nature. We believe in the lie of our imperfection. When we realize this we can reclaim the truth of our perfection and live in love and acceptance.

Action: Make a commitment to never go against yourself. Practice non-judgment and realize that the same part of your mind that condemns you is the same voice that caused you to take the action in the first place. We don’t even have to believe what we say to ourselves.

6. Appreciation and Gratitude

“So much has been given to me, I have not time to ponder over that which has been denied.”
- Helen Keller

How many times do we count our misfortunes rather than our blessings? When we take time to open our eyes to the miracle of life we can see the many gifts that have been given to us. Remembering all the beautiful aspects of life and all the reasons you are blessed can immediately shift our mood. We can move from sorrow and despair to appreciation and hope.

Action: Each time you find yourself complaining about something, re-direct your focus to something you are grateful for. Make a habit of transforming your awareness of troubles into an awareness of abundance.

7. The Art of Simplicity

“I made this letter longer than usual because I lack the time to make it short.”
- Blaise Pascal

Perfection is not when there is nothing to add, but when there is nothing more to take away. As Bruce Lee once said “the height of cultivation always runs to simplicity.” True mastery of our lives is realizing the simple joys of life, removing distractions and clutter from our lives.

Action: The art of simplicity is knowing what to take away. Practice recognizing when you’re spending your time on unimportant tasks and re-focus on the important.

This list is by no means exhaustive. There are other many great teachings that I did not include here because I felt like they were already expounded on thoroughly elsewhere, such as Einstein and Gandhi’s timeless classics. There are also great teachings to be found from our parents or friends.

-Sil3nt

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Fantastic post! Absolutely agree. You echo a lot of my ideologies and personal philosophies.

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i thought this post was very good. what im going to do is make goals and do one specific thing every day for each goal in order to attain them.


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Great post, thanks for all the quotes

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The Following is an email I received from a buddy of mine (:

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1. Realizing Your Dreams

“If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up someplace else.”
- Lawrence J. Peter

In order for us to achieve our dreams, we must have a vision of our goals. Writing down our dreams and creating a list of actions helps us stick to our plan. As it’s said “if you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it”. When we turn our goals into measurable actions, we gain clarity and are able to see the necessary steps we must take in order to achieve them.

Action: Visualize a life of your wildest dreams. What did you dream of doing when you were a child? What would you do if you had a million dollars? Create a vision for your goals and start breaking them down into small actions that you can take on a day by day basis.

2. Overcoming Fear

“It was a high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, “Always do what you are afraid to do.”
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The best way to learn something is to dive right in to it. When we overcome our fear of failure, we learn that only those who are asleep make no mistakes. Fear is the only thing keeping us from experiencing a life of love and fulfillment. If we make a commitment to an uncompromisable quest for truth, we will realize that as we grow more into the truth, our fears start to disappear.

Action: You must define your fears in order to conquer them. Create a list of everything you’re afraid of and start facing them one at a time. Make a commitment to yourself now to not let fear rule your life.

3. Intention and Desire

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become.”- Guatama Buddha

Our thoughts determine our reality. When we stop thinking about what we don’t and begin thinking about what we do want, our lives begin to transform. Instead of working against our desires and intentions, we move into alignment with them.

Action: Create a list of your intentions and desires. Wherever you go, take this list with you. Read it when you wake up and before you go to sleep.

4. Happiness

“Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances.”
- Benjamin Franklin

Happiness comes from an inner peace, understanding and acceptance of life; a perspective of truth that opens your eyes to the beauty of life all around us. Happiness cannot be achieved by external status, it must be an internal state that we realize when we see our innate perfection.

Action: Realize that happiness is a choice. In every decision you make ask yourself “how can I respond to make myself happy and fulfilled?”

5. Self Acceptance

“If a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” – Jesus

When we stop trying to be what we are not, we realize our authenticity. Before we had knowledge, we were completely authentic. We learn to use knowledge to measure and judge, which is a powerful tool we have as humans. However we create an image of perfection in our mind of what we should be, but are not. We confuse knowledge for nature. We believe in the lie of our imperfection. When we realize this we can reclaim the truth of our perfection and live in love and acceptance.

Action: Make a commitment to never go against yourself. Practice non-judgment and realize that the same part of your mind that condemns you is the same voice that caused you to take the action in the first place. We don’t even have to believe what we say to ourselves.

6. Appreciation and Gratitude

“So much has been given to me, I have not time to ponder over that which has been denied.”
- Helen Keller

How many times do we count our misfortunes rather than our blessings? When we take time to open our eyes to the miracle of life we can see the many gifts that have been given to us. Remembering all the beautiful aspects of life and all the reasons you are blessed can immediately shift our mood. We can move from sorrow and despair to appreciation and hope.

Action: Each time you find yourself complaining about something, re-direct your focus to something you are grateful for. Make a habit of transforming your awareness of troubles into an awareness of abundance.

7. The Art of Simplicity

“I made this letter longer than usual because I lack the time to make it short.”
- Blaise Pascal

Perfection is not when there is nothing to add, but when there is nothing more to take away. As Bruce Lee once said “the height of cultivation always runs to simplicity.” True mastery of our lives is realizing the simple joys of life, removing distractions and clutter from our lives.

Action: The art of simplicity is knowing what to take away. Practice recognizing when you’re spending your time on unimportant tasks and re-focus on the important.

This list is by no means exhaustive. There are other many great teachings that I did not include here because I felt like they were already expounded on thoroughly elsewhere, such as Einstein and Gandhi’s timeless classics. There are also great teachings to be found from our parents or friends.

-Sil3nt
For all the rambling about these virtues made by other people in this sub-forum, this post is worth 100x times their weight in gold.

3 Respect points for whoever guesses why this thread is worth so much and the rest jack shit.


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Nice one man, completely agree. I spent 3 years slowly improving my confidence and realizing all that by myself. Its nice to see it summarized.

@Fin, the reason this is worth so much is because it gives great life advice in a short concise form. For those who can heed the advice, it gives you a great summary of the mindset that you should have to be successful and happy. Here is why;

It is all in the mind, success literally depends on how you percieve the world, if you are positive your world will seem more positive but also positive things will start to happen to you more often. My philosophy is if someone else did it there is no reason I cant, this works for everything from women to anything else, like being rich. The only thing stopping you is whether you WANT to do it.

The other threads deal with specifics while this thread gives a good overview. Instead of telling you what you need to say or how to act around a specific type of woman this is a general philosophy of life that will greatly improve not only your success with women but with every other aspect of life. After all, women are only a part of our lives and to be truly happy we need to be satisfied with every other ascept of our lives.

I greatly encourage everyone who lacks confidence or thinks there is anything wrong with the way they perceive the world to read this and listen to it. Most of the people on this forum that are seeking specific advice about women are actually having trouble with them because of their inner mindset that is preventing them acheiving their goals. I would wager a lot of money to say that women are not the only thing missing in some peoples lives. After all, PU is only a skill set that can be easily learned if you have the right mindset.

This is where you should start and not with a specific "how do I get this/that girl?" situation.

How was that for an answer?

Also if anyone is looking for ways to improve themselves post here or PM me, there are some great books that elaborate on most of the virtues listed here.


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Nice one man, completely agree. I spent 3 years slowly improving my confidence and realizing all that by myself. Its nice to see it summarized.

@Fin, the reason this is worth so much is because it gives great life advice in a short concise form. For those who can heed the advice, it gives you a great summary of the mindset that you should have to be successful and happy. Here is why;

It is all in the mind, success literally depends on how you percieve the world, if you are positive your world will seem more positive but also positive things will start to happen to you more often. My philosophy is if someone else did it there is no reason I cant, this works for everything from women to anything else, like being rich. The only thing stopping you is whether you WANT to do it.

The other threads deal with specifics while this thread gives a good overview. Instead of telling you what you need to say or how to act around a specific type of woman this is a general philosophy of life that will greatly improve not only your success with women but with every other aspect of life. After all, women are only a part of our lives and to be truly happy we need to be satisfied with every other ascept of our lives.

I greatly encourage everyone who lacks confidence or thinks there is anything wrong with the way they perceive the world to read this and listen to it. Most of the people on this forum that are seeking specific advice about women are actually having trouble with them because of their inner mindset that is preventing them acheiving their goals. I would wager a lot of money to say that women are not the only thing missing in some peoples lives. After all, PU is only a skill set that can be easily learned if you have the right mindset.

This is where you should start and not with a specific "how do I get this/that girl?" situation.

How was that for an answer?

Also if anyone is looking for ways to improve themselves post here or PM me, there are some great books that elaborate on most of the virtues listed here.
You started so well with the underline bit! You unfortunatly just went in the complete opposite direction afterwards, so I can't quite give it to you!


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You started so well with the underline bit! You unfortunatly just went in the complete opposite direction afterwards, so I can't quite give it to you!
Using these lessons through out each and every Now will bring about a life you love. These are 7 of man kinds greatest challenges.

Realization

Fearless

Gaining Desires and Intentions

Happiness

Self Acceptance

Graciousness

Simplicity

These are our greatest challenges, the greatest challenge of each and every moment, not day or year or even lifetime, but each moment. Each one represents a different part of our enjoyment and satisfaction during this moment (every moment is now, it is always this moment). You can't be successful in any of these endeavors without any of the others.

Just my take... Don't think that is what your looking for but it is the only way I can write how I feel about it.

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You started so well with the underline bit! You unfortunatly just went in the complete opposite direction afterwards, so I can't quite give it to you!
Using these lessons through out each and every Now will bring about a life you love. These are 7 of man kinds greatest challenges.

Realization

Fearless

Gaining Desires and Intentions

Happiness

Self Acceptance

Graciousness

Simplicity

These are our greatest challenges, the greatest challenge of each and every moment, not day or year or even lifetime, but each moment. Each one represents a different part of our enjoyment and satisfaction during this moment (every moment is now, it is always this moment). You can't be successful in any of these endeavors without any of the others.

Just my take... Don't think that is what your looking for but it is the only way I can write how I feel about it.
Okay, clearly we're not going to get this.
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This sub-forum is comprised mostly of wank-fests where the writers make ambigious claims about "inner game" (Often as a desperate cry for others to join in with the mental charade.)

The truth being that you can talk till your blue in the face about "confidence", "facing fears" and "living life to the max" but if you're just going to read the thread and then go "Yeah, tottaly agree man" and continue being the same total loser you were before then you may as well just forget it.

Reading is not salvation. Planned action, like the kind this thread is offering, IS.


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Okay, clearly we're not going to get this.
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This sub-forum is comprised mostly of wank-fests where the writers make ambigious claims about "inner game" (Often as a desperate cry for others to join in with the mental charade.)

The truth being that you can talk till your blue in the face about "confidence", "facing fears" and "living life to the max" but if you're just going to read the thread and then go "Yeah, tottaly agree man" and continue being the same total loser you were before then you may as well just forget it.

Reading is not salvation. Planned action, like the kind this thread is offering, IS.

Agreed well said. I was just looking for more on the meaning then the action. My bad. As I said didn't think that was what you were looking for.

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For all the rambling about these virtues made by other people in this sub-forum, this post is worth 100x times their weight in gold.

3 Respect points for whoever guesses why this thread is worth so much and the rest jack shit.
Thank you for your kind words (:
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