| How every one knows each other (This is excellent for a conversation starter)
If you go to my "how to be social routine" you will see how to implement this
Relationships (have you a boyfriend?)
This topic covers alot, you can frame things that she will know you are only down for casual by actually talking to her about it when the subject comes up, basicly if you ask her if shes single and she says yes you can say for example.
"why? are you like me and like to keep this more open and not get tied down"
From here you can talk about guys or girls you know that got tied down too quick or how people jump into things too quick etc.
If you want to frame towards being your girl friend you can talk about how you take things slow in the beginning when you meet someone new but if they still around after a few months then you would expect a bit more commitment.
If she agrees to either of these she has just agreed to a casual relationship or the possibility of a more serious relationship in the future and a possible girlfriend.
Travel (have you ever been traveling?)
Basicly talk about places we've been to, experiences there, mad nights out, great clubs etc this is an easy one, mad shit always happens on holiday.
Family I use this only for comminalities, for example if we talk about what we do and my sister does the same job as her then I'll bring it up but I keep it brief and only to let her know a little bit more about me, you can go deeper with this but I don't basicly cause its not something I find very interesting. I use it just to see if she knows people I know (for you's in a large city the chances are slim thou)
Going out stuffThis one is great, it has the most marterial, you can talk about previous nights out, future nights out, good clubs/bad clubs and why, about the club you're in and stuff that caught your attention that night e.g. (the bar is too packed, you can even make a game out of who can get a drink the quickest)
If you meet people a few days after the last night out you can talk about your adventures trying to get home and how hung over you were the next day (I'm sure you've heard this stuff a million times before but its all excellent filler conversation)
I love talking about places that suck and funny reasons why they do, Like one club I go to the guys all have the same checkered shirts, same jeans, haircuts lol its ridiculous but funny to see 20 guys all dressed the same.
You can talk about the different types of groups of people that go to certian clubs
You can even talk about social dynamics! you can joke about how bad most guys game is "hey your hot can I buy you a drink"
About how bitchy girls are with each other over clothes, or how bad someone is dressed
(thou reserve the last for girls that are bitches)
Just knowing these you will get a hell of alot to talk about, just use the techniques in my last post and find out for your self. But remember without knowing how to sexually escalate this is only conversation and you wont get anywhere apart from conversation
and just a word of warning this conversation stuff should not be tought about infield, but the routine in my second post can be writen into you phone just as a reminder but after that listen to the girl, respond to what she says and beaware of her bodylanguage
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