I don't want routines, openers, magic tricks. I want to learn how to seduce a woman the old fashioned way. I want to give them that James Bond/Zorro (by day character) look where you look them into the eyes, they lock onto yours and are smitten. I've been practicing eye contact, composure and my evil smirk/grin that James Bond has where the woman falls in love with him instantly but am really getting nowhere. Yes, of course, these are movies and women seldom act this way in real life, but I believe that it is somewhat possible.

I've been natural for awhile now- I don't believe in lines or canned openers because that makes you something you are not and all you're trying to do is manipulate the woman by being someone you're not. I'm an off again, on again almost-PUA. I can give the best advice for any situation, but when I try to act on it myself it either doesn't work or I can't execute it properly. I try to "leave them better than I found them" (DeAngelo maybe?) but am finding a hard time doing so.

So what advice can be given? I walk tall, walk in command, have a firm posture and good eye contact. I have a bit of a stammering problem which I'm working on but I don't get noticed even before I try to talk. I don't peacock but I dress nicely and professionally. Once I'm with a woman it's no problem...I'm dominant but in the right way- I take the lead, take action, do the right thing and am honorable, noble and respectful to myself, elders and the women I am with.

My problem has always been getting a woman...once I get them I can usually keep them. But again, the whole point of this post is how do you take command and make women notice you? How do you truly seduce a woman? Seems like all the stuff I read on here and online is to bed them the fast way...I want to seduce a woman over the course of days/weeks, leave the woman wanting me, not just getting horny and wanting a quick fix.

Nice to see a guy who wants to show respect to the girl.I believe natural game is the only way to go, i think using routines is actually damaging to yourself.

When your going for a girl i think its important for the guy to feel like he's not acting.If you get a girl just by been you and she likes you that's how a relationship starts really..if your not been you it wont last.
Personally i think your 'lifestyle' is extremly important..have interests be active etc.. what you do makes you who you are.
Sort yourself out with a good lifestyle, be confident, have self-belief, dress well and understand how woman think and what they really want from guys.This is basically all i've done for the last 5mts and my game is the best it ever was.