so, when we go out, he owns the place, knows bartenders, bouncers, bunch of people. the good part is I get to know those people as well, he introduces me to people and everything but he's very good at the game and I feel like a total AFC (which I am) when around him.
he's got a fancy job even though he doesn't really make that much money, he's a musician, he can dance and he has stories to tell and keep girls interested.

any ideas how to use this situation to my advantage, learn as much as I can and avoid being completely overshadowed by him?

That's the guy you want to emulate. Keep a close eye on him, watch how he carries himself and handles women (and people) in general. Do not worry about being overshadowed by him, you are NOT in a competition, you are trying to LEARN. You are in a great position because you can read through material found on this site (and elsewhere) and watch the techniques in real time. Learning how to be successful with woman is not a destination, it's an ongoing process.

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thanks for the response. I'm doing my best to learn and watching this guy in action is very educational!

Like Sinfui said, this guy is clearly doing what he's best at. Being himself, confidence and showing the world that he is the best at what he does. He is alpha and he knows it. Just by proving that he knows a lot of people, working himself around, confidence in talking, acting & dancing.. yeah, you get the picture: a perfect rolemodel.

Make sure you learn here. Do not copy his style, but learn from it. Adjust it to your needs and greeds. And make sure you do the adjustments properly, copy-catting will only make you flake. A true person, which natural is all about, can be outstanding by being who he is. Allthough the learning process, takes a long time.

Good luck!

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You're so lucky you have a guy like this you can learn from, not many of us get the opportunity to watch a real natural in action