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| dustygtr | PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 5:08 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:49 am Posts: 1 | | Hey guys, I've been sarging during the day. Have been developing natural game [which fits more of my personality as I can't pretend to be anyone but myself], everything will go along fine but when I ask for her number, I get an emails instead.
This should be considered a bitch test I suspect, have you guys run into to blocks like this before and what are some methods to oversome this?
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| PUA Kenny | PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 9:14 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 11, 2008 3:21 am Posts: 2124 Website: http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/ Yahoo Messenger: jomo_loc@yahoo.com Location: NYC | | I dont see this as a shit test.
Look at it this way,you'll eventually get the # with ease after exchanging few e-mails.
Plus maybe you "ASKed" for her #,rather than saying,"give me".
Best tactic is to put your phone in her hand and tell her to punch in her digits.
So,never ask. _________________ Most active PUA blog in the community since 2009.
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| Ryan Black SashaPUA | PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 9:38 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:35 pm Posts: 2091 Website: http://www.sashapua.com Location: London | | 1. K-loc is right, don't ask "can I have" say "gimme your number" or "let's exchange numbers"
2. What have you done up until the n-close? If you've just talked about random boring shit or joked about nothing in particular, then you don't have enough of a connection to make her particularly want to see you again. A good strategy is to make sure you find out at least one thing about her that can lead to a day 2. For example, she loves indie music. "OK awesome, me too! Alright well there's this great bar I know and on thursdays they have free indie shows and you can see young up and coming bands before they hit the big time, it's great. You should totally come. Alright it's on X st - I'll see you there around 9. And hey, let's exchange contact info in case one of us is late." _________________ SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0
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| PUA Kenny | PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 10:30 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 11, 2008 3:21 am Posts: 2124 Website: http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/ Yahoo Messenger: jomo_loc@yahoo.com Location: NYC | | Great insight Blondguy.
I used to have major prob's with # closing-and still do.
Main prob' I had was trying to # close too fast as if I was scared to hang in there,so I wanted to get in & out.
That approach leads to fake #'s.
I believe the main issue with #-closes is trying to close prematurely,as Blondguy eluded to.
You cannot try # exchange after a boring chat.
So like Blondguy,Im curious to how the chat went prior to the asking of the #. _________________ Most active PUA blog in the community since 2009.
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| fifeguy86 | PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 9:40 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Oct 09, 2010 3:31 pm Posts: 177 Location: fife, scotland | | spot on guys
totally, never ask if you can have her number. ask what it is!
expect to get it basically.
i never had a problem number closing after i realised this.
ther is also the way of making her say it. leading her with;
'i got to go soon, how could we go about continueing this conversation later?'
she will most likely say swapping numbers. _________________ "Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova
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| PlayHer Man | PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 1:55 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Aug 15, 2010 1:09 am Posts: 375 Location: Bethesda MD | | I usually say: "Give me your number so we can grab a drink sometime" or "Let me have your number so I can get in touch with you later".
FUCK email addresses. FUCK 'em! And I'll tell you why -- if a girl is interested and has a phone why would she make it harder than it has to be? If she says she will give you email just say: "Just give me your number... I never use my email". If she still wont do it just walk way.
And email is a waste of time and it makes you look like you'll put up with anything. It IS a shit test. You fail when you take her email.
Don't do it. I don't care what anyone else says. _________________ Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think
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| fifeguy86 | PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:17 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Oct 09, 2010 3:31 pm Posts: 177 Location: fife, scotland | | personnally i dont take email addresses either. for a lot of the same reasons you just mentioned although im not sure if it is a shit test but it could well be.
if she suggest email i just say;
'i dont really use email much, give me your number'
suprisingly this simple comment is nearly always effective. if she doent give me her number, im not bothered, i dont take the email. however this is up to you guys, take the email if you like. indeed i know some guys only ask for email. _________________ "Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova
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