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PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 5:08 pm 
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Hey guys, I've been sarging during the day. Have been developing natural game [which fits more of my personality as I can't pretend to be anyone but myself], everything will go along fine but when I ask for her number, I get an emails instead.

This should be considered a bitch test I suspect, have you guys run into to blocks like this before and what are some methods to oversome this?


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 9:14 pm 
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I dont see this as a shit test.

Look at it this way,you'll eventually get the # with ease after exchanging few e-mails.

Plus maybe you "ASKed" for her #,rather than saying,"give me".

Best tactic is to put your phone in her hand and tell her to punch in her digits.

So,never ask.

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1. K-loc is right, don't ask "can I have" say "gimme your number" or "let's exchange numbers"

2. What have you done up until the n-close? If you've just talked about random boring shit or joked about nothing in particular, then you don't have enough of a connection to make her particularly want to see you again. A good strategy is to make sure you find out at least one thing about her that can lead to a day 2. For example, she loves indie music. "OK awesome, me too! Alright well there's this great bar I know and on thursdays they have free indie shows and you can see young up and coming bands before they hit the big time, it's great. You should totally come. Alright it's on X st - I'll see you there around 9. And hey, let's exchange contact info in case one of us is late."

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Great insight Blondguy.

I used to have major prob's with # closing-and still do.

Main prob' I had was trying to # close too fast as if I was scared to hang in there,so I wanted to get in & out.

That approach leads to fake #'s.

I believe the main issue with #-closes is trying to close prematurely,as Blondguy eluded to.

You cannot try # exchange after a boring chat.

So like Blondguy,Im curious to how the chat went prior to the asking of the #.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 9:40 pm 
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spot on guys

totally, never ask if you can have her number. ask what it is!
expect to get it basically.

i never had a problem number closing after i realised this.

ther is also the way of making her say it. leading her with;

'i got to go soon, how could we go about continueing this conversation later?'

she will most likely say swapping numbers.

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I usually say: "Give me your number so we can grab a drink sometime" or "Let me have your number so I can get in touch with you later".

FUCK email addresses. FUCK 'em! And I'll tell you why -- if a girl is interested and has a phone why would she make it harder than it has to be? If she says she will give you email just say: "Just give me your number... I never use my email". If she still wont do it just walk way.

And email is a waste of time and it makes you look like you'll put up with anything. It IS a shit test. You fail when you take her email.

Don't do it. I don't care what anyone else says.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:17 pm 
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personnally i dont take email addresses either. for a lot of the same reasons you just mentioned although im not sure if it is a shit test but it could well be.

if she suggest email i just say;

'i dont really use email much, give me your number'

suprisingly this simple comment is nearly always effective. if she doent give me her number, im not bothered, i dont take the email. however this is up to you guys, take the email if you like. indeed i know some guys only ask for email.

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