What is a kosher way of making sure that a woman you are flirting with knows that you are not interested in a relationship, but want to escalate. Assume this is after SOIing, everything is going well, and logistics are figured.

Flirt with her, make sexual remarks about her, but don't even mention the word relationship. If she still gets the idea of an relationship, that's her problem.

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be very up front with her. if u dont want a relationship u better tell her before she gets to attached and thinks there is a chance because u might get sex but ur goin to end up hurtin her. if u want a fuck buddy keep poking around about sex but make sure that she knows u dont want a relationship and if she knows it and still talks to u the same way congradulations u may have found a fuck buddy

Almost everything you read on here will not really get you into the relationship trap. The way I recently slipped was not to escalate quickly enough. I did it consciously, because she somehow seemed to innocent and because I was getting plenty already. Once I noticed it though, I made sure to let her know I wasn't being exclusive before things got further. Sure, she wasn't thrilled, but aside from not pushing for a FC aggressively enough, nothing can be held against me.

You should play it the same way. Do your thing, be sexual, and definitely don't mislead. If she asks, tell her that you're seeing a few girls casually and picking up on the side.