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maybe my view is very jaded, but in my experience a hot girl almost always has somebody she can refer to as a "boyfriend". sometimes this is a true blue serious boyfriend, but a lot of times it isn't and is just some guy she is fucking or went on a few dates with or an ex she still sees. very few (attractive) women are 100% single and baggage free.
knowing that means you can't be afraid to continue persuing a woman after she gives you the "boyfriend" line. if you did you'd be shutting out a huge percentage of girls. now if you do learn that her and the bf are pretty serious, you should back off, but until then i would take the "boyfriend" thing with a grain of salt.
I guess I never had the problem of having girls tell me they have BF, the problem for me is they never tell me they have a BF. Almost like Biz Markie's song I just have a friend. There are girls that are definitely seeing other guys but when I am around no holding hands, I ask about their man, and they say there is no man. One particular girl I asked about said he isn't her BF, that they did date for a while but she wasn't having it anymore and that she was available.
I have had girls say they are dating someone(as if they were just seeing each other) when it was clear they were committed. I have seen girls stop holding hands when they have seen me and this happened repeatedly, it was hard not to notice.
Perhaps that is why I never really went after girls with a BF because they came after me. Most girls in a committed relationship fail to acknowledge it in front of me.
Relationships are never a problem to get through, and perhaps sometimes they are a lie and say they have a BF, for me however they are rarely taken. I guess I have different issues with it.
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