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PostPosted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:38 am 
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I had a great conversation with a girl that I randomly met. I told her I liked her for many reasons, I told her that she was sexy for a reason. The undertone was sexual and we were both having fun. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend, when she told me I don't think I seemed too put off as I told her I had already assumed that. She still gave me her number and I'm still interested in her.

What is the best way for me to do this? I want to escalate the energy to the next level, because I don't think the energy level can stay the same. It either gets more intense and more sexual, or digresses into friendship.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 5:26 pm 
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I had a great conversation with a girl that I randomly met. I told her I liked her for many reasons, I told her that she was sexy for a reason. The undertone was sexual and we were both having fun. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend, when she told me I don't think I seemed too put off as I told her I had already assumed that. She still gave me her number and I'm still interested in her.

What is the best way for me to do this? I want to escalate the energy to the next level, because I don't think the energy level can stay the same. It either gets more intense and more sexual, or digresses into friendship.

Thanks in advance

PS. I am studying the Juggler method, although I've never been to a Charisma Arts event.

Well, if it was your girlfriend how would you feel about this stuff? I don't understand why you'd go after the problems of a girl with a guy. You know how many billions of other girls there are? I am not really a fan of going after a girl with a boyfriend. People get shot, beat up, and killed for women, why not just select a different girl? Is she the only number you have ever got? Help me understand why it is a good idea to go after a girl that can give you some large headaches.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:08 pm 
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Why not? She could be either happy or unhappy in her relationship. She could be thinking of breaking up with him, or she could be thinking of getting married to him. I am okay with not hooking up with this particular girl, but I would like to keep the bridge their for when or if her current relationship does or doesn't work out. Granted, I am a complete novice. No, she's not the only girl I've ever gotten the number of.

To clarify, I'm not interested in hooking up with her while she has a boyfriend. Cheating hurts people and that's not what I'm out to do. She does like me a lot, I just want to at least keep our connection afloat.

PS. If it affects anything, I'm meeting at least a new girl everyday.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 14, 2010 9:03 am 
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And even if she cheats on him, he didn't force anything on her, he ended up showing DHV and it was her decision to make. Clearly if she was in a very satisfying relationship she wouldn't have been with him but I want to say don't be to persistent because maybe the guy's a good guy and his game is off but if he's a douche ya know i'm not going to say anything to stop you. ;)


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My argument has nothing to do with whether she was happy. My point is that unless you are there to protect a girl it isn't worth it. People get shot for flipping people off in certain parts of the US, wars have been started for women. You guys seem to see it as simple as a girl cheating, but there are some dangerous people out there that feel their girl is their's and you can get into some serious shit for messing with them. Some ex cop or some body who can screw with you.

If a guy is off his rocker you can get beat down or perhaps you win with a jail sentence. These things happen the point is to avoid the problems. I have had a shot with far to may girls who were taken, it isn't worth it. Life is about building relationships, how are you going to do well in life if you are so busy ruining relationships? I have made countless friends from not doing things I could have, such as hooking up with a wife, fiance, or GF. Now I have awesome friendships with a lot of people and I have gotten a lot of joys from those, perhaps different ones but joys none the less. Could I have likely hooked up with those girls with the right tactics? Absolutely, but because I didn't I have built stronger relationships with people who will do anything for me.

Simply put BE A GOOD GUY.

Sierra I don't have a problem with maintaining a friendship where they maybe a relationship at the end but keep in mind that it isn't always a good idea to steal someone else's "kool-aid". Hopefully it works out, but for me I wouldn't put any value on it outside of well maybe some day.

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Ok firstly u planted the seed well done my friend... Now you should either call or text if you havent done so, personally I would send her a text message, it's informal and seems more relaxed. Just text her something simple like "hey was great to meet you would be cool to meet up again you have a really good vibe about you hope you're out tonight?" with a question Mark at the end she should text bk...
Now her boyfriend will most probably see this text which is fine to her you are just being friendly n not hitting on her right? But if u do meet her later that night he is gonna wanna see who u are n why u r checking out his girl... So befriend this guy pay him compliments but also give him negs for u to be able to steal his girl u need to win him over, get his approval n u will soon have his woman draped in ur arms... Establish yourself as the AMOG if ur nice to him with the occasional neg he will begin to think you're not a threat after all you're just being friendly... 
Plant the seed, pay the seed attention water it give it sunlight sit bk n watch it grow then fuck the plant!
     What I'm trying to say is give her attention not too much, but just enough that she knows who you are, establish yourself as the AMOG among her boyfriend and maybe his friend chill out for a few weeks, don't text her or call her she will text or call you trust me, but after a few weeks text or call and maybe she may have broken up with her boyfriend and now this is your chance

To play this game especially when a third party is engulfed takes a lot of time and effort but let me know how you get on...

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maybe my view is very jaded, but in my experience a hot girl almost always has somebody she can refer to as a "boyfriend". sometimes this is a true blue serious boyfriend, but a lot of times it isn't and is just some guy she is fucking or went on a few dates with or an ex she still sees. very few (attractive) women are 100% single and baggage free.

knowing that means you can't be afraid to continue persuing a woman after she gives you the "boyfriend" line. if you did you'd be shutting out a huge percentage of girls. now if you do learn that her and the bf are pretty serious, you should back off, but until then i would take the "boyfriend" thing with a grain of salt.

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maybe my view is very jaded, but in my experience a hot girl almost always has somebody she can refer to as a "boyfriend". sometimes this is a true blue serious boyfriend, but a lot of times it isn't and is just some guy she is fucking or went on a few dates with or an ex she still sees. very few (attractive) women are 100% single and baggage free.

knowing that means you can't be afraid to continue persuing a woman after she gives you the "boyfriend" line. if you did you'd be shutting out a huge percentage of girls. now if you do learn that her and the bf are pretty serious, you should back off, but until then i would take the "boyfriend" thing with a grain of salt.

I guess I never had the problem of having girls tell me they have BF, the problem for me is they never tell me they have a BF. Almost like Biz Markie's song I just have a friend. There are girls that are definitely seeing other guys but when I am around no holding hands, I ask about their man, and they say there is no man. One particular girl I asked about said he isn't her BF, that they did date for a while but she wasn't having it anymore and that she was available.

I have had girls say they are dating someone(as if they were just seeing each other) when it was clear they were committed. I have seen girls stop holding hands when they have seen me and this happened repeatedly, it was hard not to notice.

Perhaps that is why I never really went after girls with a BF because they came after me. Most girls in a committed relationship fail to acknowledge it in front of me.

Relationships are never a problem to get through, and perhaps sometimes they are a lie and say they have a BF, for me however they are rarely taken. I guess I have different issues with it.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 9:09 pm 
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I think it was Juggler who said that every hot girl out there has a boyfriend. If you want her, you need to take her from him, that's kind of how it goes in nature or in modern society.

If you like her then interact with her, flirt with her, give her an awesome experience and she may choose you over him.

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