Hey Medic.

I saw a thread about girls with game, but noone there actually said anything about dealing with such girls. Let's say she has ridiculously high cryteria for guys, generally isn't interested in a relationship because it takes up her time and may in fact hook up with guys from time to time, but they soon become pathetic for her. I don't really know if such a girl could be called cold since this particular one I'm talking about is really nice, funny and friendly, but every guy she meets tries to flirt with her and seduce her, and she's in fact not interested at all.
Maybe it's too much to ask, but maybe share some advice on how to build rapport with someone unwilling to do so, and how to really demonstrate value without having to boast or telling DHV stories.

I get complimented about my looks often so it's not an issue of natural game. I have somewhat feminine features, but I am well built and muscular since I workout regularly. I dress in jeans and shirts of all sorts of colours and I wear some silver jewelry. I have spent time practicing posture, body languade, etc. I am friendly and outgoing but firm when necessary.

All I need to know is this - How can I be serious without becoming boring, how can I built rapport with someone who seems to be rather indifferent. Don't get me wrong, I get both verbal and non verbal IOIs, but it's like... She wouldn't care if I didn't care, so a neg or a freeze-out would never work on her, and that may cost me the upper hand, and eventually, her friendship and affection.

Medic,
I'm pretty new to the PUA lifestyle, I really liking it more and more from what i've been reading and watching and being on this forum. I have the desire to be the best and put all my effort into this, but i'm just having trouble getting off to what i feel would be a better start then i am now. I have F***** a lot of girls in my past but now i'm going for 8's 9's 10's. don't get me wrong i had a several of them back in the day and lost em and I can see why now. So, i've decided to start my game from the ground up all over again and starting from the basics and trying to go into this with a head free of rejection anxiety or any down falls. I looking for advise on how to develop my game so it becomes natural to me somewhat like an unconscious behavior where i no longer have to think before i approach or act it's antural. I really would appreciate some feedback whenever possible.

Priceisright

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is it better to add energy to an interaction or be chilled? because i find it easy to get hyped and do/say randm things to get girls intrested but i dunno if it demonstrates low value but if im chilled it seems i dont get noticed...

MEDIC,

I'm new to the game and basically I've worked on my inner game and I know couple routines. I'm 18 (I'm a virgin, but I act like I'm not so I've had many times girls ask me at what age I lost my virginity(question game)) Even the first time I kissed girl was wondering about my confidence levels saying "How can you be so confident and etc.) Now I'll come to the point. I got to know one girl, which I really like. She is 23, she had a boyfriend they just broke up yesterday. I wana call her out, but I really don't wanna get flicked. Since we both are in college the life is really busy. Any suggestions? When should I contact her and where should I invite her? (we had a launch together couple weeks ago and met on the Halloween party) P.S. we are friends on facebook so she might know that I know about her breaking up with her boyfriend and I really don't want to come across as needy. Where would you advise me to take her out(she is a virgin and just had 2 boyfriends)+she is very shy...and she likes negging me...but I neg back when this happens. And she never calls first...should I try to K-close?Any suggestions?

I don't think Medic is answering questions in this thread any more..

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Women are plenty, time is not.

So I'm a senior in high school and I've great success since my sophomore year when I started studying picking up girls. I have a pretty good grasp of the mystery method and basic concepts, I've number closed, kissed closed, and f closed many times, but mostly with girls not in my school. So here's my problem, I've got a case of one-itis pretty bad, but I really really like this girl to the point where I can't sleep and my mind pretty much revolves around her, even though this is REALLY bad. Here's the start of our interactions up until now:

She's in my grade, but I just started talking to her this year. I started by getting in with her friends, building a little rapport, and teasing. I wasn't long before I started making her laugh, teasing her, and I number closed her easily. The next day, while she was laughing hysterically at my playful teasing and DHV stuff, I asked her to my homecoming dance, she said yes, texted me within a half hour of saying goodbye. We went to the dance, but here's the thing, she's really shy, quiet, and doesn't ever initiate conversation with me, but here are the IOIs I got: she flipped her hair while talking to me lots of times, she left her friends to stay with me, she laughed at every joke I made, and she smiled a lot. I didnt try to kiss her or anything that night.

Ever since then, I've carefully used lots of DHV stories, teased her, made her laugh almost every time I'm with her, teased her, used lots of gambits and routines, I've had normal conversations, I've texted her only a couple times a week, and I have lots of social proof (more than her) and lots of other girls to talk to. I've been very confident and am the alpha male of the class i have her in.From her, I get LOTS of hair tosses as IOIs, giggling at everything, mirroring my gestures, continuing conversations when I end them, etc. she'll walk a different way to her classes just to walk with me sometimes.

This is all good, but the problem is, this has been going on in that cycle for a month now and I don't know what to do to make her my girlfriend!! she's really shy, quiet, religious, nice, and hard to read, but she's very very beautiful and I don't know what to do to go to the next level! the other day I texted her and said hey, and she didn't text back. did she flake on me or what happened, and what should I do to handle it?

Thanks in advance for all responses!!!!!!