Hey guys,

thanks for your help a few days ago-- after the last three nights in venues, I think I'm already getting a handle on the last sticking point.

I've come to GREATLY appreciate the massive effect roleplaying has on building attraction.

I believe I am fine at roleplaying when it's been set in motion. In fact (and I'm sure some of you can relate) it almost feels to me like nature is just taking it's course, and I can't do anything to stop the mutual attraction it brings about.

However, I find it hard to initiate role playing at will. I've tried to examine the situations where it has just happened naturally, but I suspect these are mainly initiated by girls who are already attracted to me.

Question #1: Can anyone give me some good "induction methods" to roleplaying?

Question #2: What are some good roleplaying scenarios that are non-threatening, yet build attraction?

Thanks so much guys, and let's keep the self-improvement snowballing!
-Jackson Coltraine

hit em with the ol' "ill be charlie and you can be my angels"
obviously works best with 3 chicks and you will immediately be able to tell whos havin it and who isnt

Hey,

I would also be interested in hearing some ideas for roleplays.

I tried a "lets start a band" one the other week (we both played an instrument). Was OK, had fun thinking of stupid band names, but I couldn't really think of any ways to initiate kino.

Anyone else else got any good ones?

Good idea! The band is a non-threatening way to initiate role-playing. As far as escalating kino from such a neutral topic, I would suggest something silly, such as asking to see her air-guitar (she'll do it wrong) and then busting her balls and telling her she's doing it wrong (she'll give you a pouty face). After she does it wrong for a second time, take her arms in your hands and do the air guitar the "right" way. From there you can go a number of routes possibly-- drumming on her, putting your arm around her for the "band photo" and even pull her in close conspiratorially for the "band meeting."

Thanks for a great idea; I hope this proves helpful if you read this!
-PB

Good idea! The band is a non-threatening way to initiate role-playing. As far as escalating kino from such a neutral topic, I would suggest something silly, such as asking to see her air-guitar (she'll do it wrong) and then busting her balls and telling her she's doing it wrong (she'll give you a pouty face). After she does it wrong for a second time, take her arms in your hands and do the air guitar the "right" way. From there you can go a number of routes possibly-- drumming on her, putting your arm around her for the "band photo" and even pull her in close conspiratorially for the "band meeting."

Thanks for a great idea; I hope this proves helpful if you read this!
-PB