Another girl this time. Recently tested the marriage/divorce opener on facebook and it worked rather well. I met the girl out in town on the Saturday night. Anyway, k-closed and she wasn't drunk so I know it wasn't a mistake.

However, gone to meet her today and it seemed to be going great, then all of a sudden it got to a stage where we sat down on a bench and she folded her arms and didn't do nothing. I don't understand where it went wrong, before we were close, I used the claw and she was playing with my hand etc.

I just don't know what went wrong. I recieved a text off her which I guess was suppose to go to her mate saying 'So im back lol! Im not that into him I don't think'.
So, what went wrong? The only thing I can think of is not long before I tried 'the cube' but sort of messed it up a little on stumbled around it as I kind of forgot the meaning of it.

I'm not sure what I can do to recover it? Any help?

You hit LMR. It has nothing to do with the cube.
Did you build any emotional connection with her besides caressing her?

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Last minute resistance? That's a good thing right?

Sort of, it depends what you mean emotionally? We talked about what we want to do in life and stuff like that and our families and such. I'm not sure if that's what you mean?

Plus, if it is. What do I do? I've watched clips but it's when you're actually with the girl? Do I just hang out with her again or what and back off a little?

Sorry SpeXXX, I have to disagree about this being LMR. The girl shut down on him, and not in a good way. He probably did something to turn her off or messed up in the interaction somewhere, and she lost interest. Good job on the K-close, but maybe focus on your follow up game. Were you needy and called too often? Did you do anything to creep her out (like doing the cube at an awkward time or making it seem stupid and contrived)?

I think you just need more practice. You're on the right track. Don't dwell on what you did wrong as you'll go crazy. Focus on your accomplishment, make sure your kino escalation is good (a key to never getting LMR), and keep at it.

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I personally didn't think it was LMR. I think I know what I did, I think I over played it a little bit. I definitely didn't call too often and such. I made sure I left pretty big gaps and stuff between texts. Which I never normally do, it's all practice, I'm still new to the game.

It might have been LMR, it might have been you messed up or overplayed it at some point (it happens), or she was simply a little nervous. If you kissed her and then you meet her a couple of days later she ll already expect quite a lot from the date. So if it goes good or bad the tension towards the end grows and at the end you ll almost have to kiss close to make sure you don't move backwards in the pick-up. She'll feel that tension and crossing her arms and being a little defensive is almost natural unless it went great.

I like observing body language a lot and have found that not only do your feelings change your body language but your body language also changes your feelings. So if you are feeling confident and she has her arms crossed, take her hands softly and uncross her arms saying: "thats better" with a soft smile, if she is confused or says something maybe go with: "you were making me uncomfortable" still smiling. (Worked for me but suits my style for closing).

Hope I could help,

Len.