| These steps are meant to give you the basics of getting the girl over to your place the first time you meet her. I stay in Houston, TX and my friends and I rarly go clubbing, I believe that does not define "TRUE GAME".
THIS IS IT!:
Getting a girl to come home with you from a bar or club the easier and faster way. But without further ado, These are the steps I recomend you to take when you're in a club or bar and you want the girl at ur place:
STEP 1: consider the details. By this I mean think everything through, make sure that there's nothing stopping you from bringing her home. Make sure you have a place close to the venue. It doesn't have to be your house; it could be a your buddys flat that you have a key to or my personal fav, "my car". Make sure that there's nothing creepy inside, and that it looks presentable to the girl. The last thing you want is having her come over, and then run out because your friend likes making collages of human body parts for "art". Make sure you have a place in the house that is secluded enough to have sex in.
STEP 2: HAVE A GOAL! Your not there to optain numbers are you? (I believe The GWM stated it better). Pre-set your mind on your goal. If you want to get laid that night, you should be thinking of that as your primary goal. Every interaction with a girl should have the context of you wanting to sleep with her later on. I don't mean for you to be creepy, but rather to have an "all out"/unapologetic approach.
"Just like in the Apocalypse Opener* (which is beautifully written). Find out what her plans are for later that night. Some responses that will make your work cut out for you, "I'm the designated driver, and we're all heading out in an hour or so", or "I'm visiting my mom, and staying at my brother's place". Some of these situations can be worked around, but usually your best bet is to find another girl. Be prepared for every situation."
If you ask her what she's doing later that night the good answers would be, "Finding an after party!" or "I'm not sure, what are you up to?" Both of those are really good indicators.
STEP 3: The most important. You need to lead! and as soon as you start the interaction. For example, grab her hand, and get her to follow you around the bar/club. A good way to do this is to say, "I gotta get a drink" take her hand, and lead. This is super important in creating attraction, and it is important if you want to lead her out of the club later on. YOU'RE ALWAYS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE OUTCOME!
STEP 4: "E.S.C.A.L.A.T.E"!! Escallate everywhere, Escalate on the dance floor, Parking Lot lol, fuck it ESC anywhere. You need to always be escalating, physically, and verberly. Give small sexual hints here and there. Gauging her response will allow you to see if she's ready to leave with you, or if you need to spend more time making her comfortable. This is where you go for a kiss. (dont forget DIRECT EYE CONTACT). OK During the make out... make sure you pull away first. This is a subtle psychological trick that leaves her wanting for more.... or so I've heard. Im not a Psychologist,.....YET!
STEP 5: Qualify. A key dating tip any interaction. You need to tell her that you want to hook up with her for a reason other than her looks. There's a million ways to do this, some of them are, "You're the first girl that I was able to have a decent conversation with tonight, I'm glad we met". "I think that its awesome you went to volunteer in Ghana, you must be a really kind person. I think that's great". There's more qualifying around the internet. If you're feeling like you've escalated enough before, the money line here is,
"To be perfectly honest, I'd really want to hook up with you right now".
Make sure you do this after you qualify her for non-sex-related stuff.
BOOM ITS OVER! SIMPLE!
DISCLAIMER: Results Vary!!
Maybe its me but this pattern has never failed me nor my friends. Just have to have the right mid set and believe. I cant put it any simpler than this.
CHEERS.............ENJOY! _________________ DISCLAIMER: All things said/suggested by "civilian" are strictly for entertainment and general information purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. I accept no Liability for such comments or suggestions whatsoever.
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