Hey guys, I have read this seduction advice on an Italian PUA site: don't make a lot of compliments and questions to women, or you'll be lower status.

What do you think about it? Gambler in his book underlines the importance of a great connection with a girl for seducing her. But, for connecting, you should make questions to the girl, you should listen more than you speak, you should be socially generous.

So, what's wrong with questions?

Do you agree with me about the following statement?
A great seducer is someone who can generate attraction and create a wonderful connection at the same time.

Thank you.

every had someone you dont know ask you tons of ?s like say taxi driver
taxi drivers always seem to put me in this situation but

1. its anoying
2. she will be thinking why is this guy i dont even know interviewing me it will make her feel awkward and most likely bore her and
3. shel lose interest in you because your barrage of ?s will show that your putting her on a pedastal and that shes cleary higher value and your lower value

did i mention you wont stand out from the last 20 guys who did this exact same routine before you showed up and she will just put you in the same bracket as those other "creepy bar guys "

By not asking a lot of questions conveys a lack of interest and can increase your social value but also lacks a connection between you and the girl. If there is no connection then there's no way you can escalate.

Personally, I don't go along with that method and yet I still get girls fine. I've learned that by building comfort with a girl first ensures that your attention is never unwanted. By maintaining eye contact, smile, touch and proximity and at the same time exchanging genuine, interesting and humorous conversation will build a stronger connection than showing a lack of interest. There are also rapport building techniques such as mimicking body language, showing empathy, showing commonalities, emanating gestures in texts and paralanguage (aspects of communication that have to do with voice tonality, tempo, volume etc by mimicking this creates a great connection).

It's fairly simple if there is no acknowledgement of mutual interest or rapport then there is no connection. This concept of asking a lot of questions is partially correct, by asking multiple closed answered questions will not take the conversation anywhere and cause the girl to lose interest. By asking open answered questions that give her and you the chance to speak about yourselves will create interest and thus connection. Questions such as "what is the most amazing place you have been to that you felt like you hold a connection with" or "so what is your greatest ambition in life?" these questions will get her thinking and will subconsciously create a connection due to the investment she has just placed.

Experiment my friend, try them both out

AFCCoffee

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Thank you guys!

I agree.