The thing you're looking for is called social proof, Adam Lyons, Gambler, etc are all focused on this part. The basic line is little effort + massive response = good social proof.

The guy peacocking gets alot of responses, but he has put in alot of effort. The guy just walking casually through the club and everyone looking at him also gets alot of responses but puts in little effort.

Gambler has cool tricks and tips to achieve this, I suggest searching for his latest work.

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An approach a day keeps the guru away.

Social proof all depends on how people perceive you, and how others react to you.... if you're standing still in a club all alone, you have no social proof (negative social proof even).

Now imagine this; when you're in the same situation, standing still, doing nothing. But you have 3 girls on the right surrounding you, all laughing, you have 3 guys on the left, all raising their glass towards you, you'll have massive social proof.


In both situations he does the same thing, but what's important is how you look to other people. The second situation will make the guy a million times more attractive to any woman.


In short, yes, it's completely reliant on how others react to him.... though a high value person in a foreign environment should be able to make friends easily and get into the second situation pretty quickly.... the only thing holding you back is your limiting beliefs and/or fear.

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An approach a day keeps the guru away.

Social Proof is crazy powerful.

If you are attractive to other women, all women will be attracted to some degree (or at least intrigued) They will think.

1) I want him to think I am attractive.
2) If these other girls are attracted to him, he must be attractive.
3) I want to compete with these women for him to prove myself.

And a whole slew of other great thoughts you want her thinking.

It also shows value because you are having fun, not inside your head.

But look, the real reason social proof works so well is because very few people in this world have any idea what the hell is going on. When you are the guy in the club that has the power, the buck stops on you.

YOU know what the hell is going on, YOU are going on. This is the leadership mentality that can free a girl from her own insecurity. I believe this represents freeing her sexual self from the binds of insecurity and social conditioning. It runs deep and something as simple as having a good time, knowing people, not trying to impress all CONVEY that you trust yourself and are the leader. YOU are the one that GETS life and GETS what is going on in reality. That means YOU are the guy that can free her from herself.

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

Social proof is massively powerful, there's actually an experiment that had women judge a man's attractiveness surrounded by women on a poster.

In the first test the women all had neutral expressions when looking at him, in the second they had positive expressions.

And yup, in the second test the women rated the man much more attractive.

Try reading "Diary of a PUA" by Adam Lyons and PM me if you'd like this new report Gambler just produced, about EXACTLY what you're discussing here.

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A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty