i have been through this issue with forming connections before, and this is one of my crucial sticking points. i will have a conversation with a girl, and am attempting to hold it and incorporate PUA stuff into it (qualification, sexual escalation, kino, rapport, comfort, ....) however, the issue is that i need to find subjects to connect on, common interests, or some other means of forming a connection as yet undiscovered. now don't get me wrong, i have had connections with girls before, it's just not a common thing, and i obviously need to change something i'm doing to let it happen more easily.
yes, i could ask an endless barrage of questions, or talk to a bunch of different girls, until i hit on one, but this is impractical.

and when the connection isn't formed, my # closes lead nowhere (no surprise there).

can someone help me? how can i solve this problem?

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This is a very good question, and I will be watching this thread. But I would throw some strong opinions, but very vauge so you can easily change your opinion.

not every glove fits, but there are many you can wear. there are many you can try on that are maybe too tight, or "i don't really like the feathers on that one" or "hmm, only if it didn't have that velcro buckle" BUT, you can take the feathers off the glove or maybe you have an idea for an outfit that the feather gloves would go well with.. Get what I'm kinda trying to say?

Not everyone you meet will share a 'great connection' with you, naturally, but try to tap into who they are and get on a 'level' with them. Think of maybe molding yourself to them, and then bringing them back to where you originally were so THEY"Re molding to You. Not everyones made for everyone, and thats where seduction and all this comes in. I dunno.. I only feel REAL connection to very few people, maybe its just me. And I think thats kinda how its meant to be. Ultimately I don't know what the fuck I'm talking about. Peace out!