Is it ok to be sensitive. Talk to your gf about your feelings and say i love you?
or is this the non alpha male thing to do

Its ok after she tells you first... Don say I love you first... Dont throw your emotions first... etc ... Tho on the other hand dont be 2 cold

I would recommend giving off a vulnerable vibe. Being vulnerably does not equate to being needy/weak. It is a very attractive vibe.

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I would say be sensitive in small doses.

Avoid the big L word...love...at all costs lol

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Hey bro,

I feel there's no right or wrong answer. Some girls find a guy who is a vulnerable super attractive while some don't. There are all types of people in the world.

What is more important however, is whether you are being yourself. Think about it. Would you like to pretend being someone you are not all the time? Would you feel good if you were holding back your emotions and how you really feel all the time? Would you feel good to be confined to an image you created in your head about how you should be around women or would you like to be free to express yourself?

Having said that, what I feel is more important is living your purpose. Living your purpose means following your passions and true desires, working towards creating a life you really love.

If you were so happy and excited about your life, do you think trivial things like how you should talk (vulnerable or macho) to a woman matter to you?

Also, do you think a girl who thinks you have your shit together and likes you, will reject you only because you act sensitive when you feel like it? Would you break up with a girl you really like only because she takes lead at certain things from time to time that she really likes?

I'd suggest you don't change yourself for anyone. Date beautiful girls who like you for what you are. Same goes for the friends you make.

Take your life in the direction you feel you'll be most happy in, and see your behavior change automatically. Your behaviors will align to your values, purpose, and new beliefs that you form.

Of course it's ok to be sensitive.


everyone in the world has weak spots, acting as if you have none is more counter productive then anything. Show emotions; good and bad. Women respond great to them, but show them because you feel them and they're genuine, not simply for attention.


and if you love a girl, tell her; it's impossible to have real love without some sense of vulnerability.

hey bro i would recommend maybe leaving telling her how you care for her for marriage day, and MAYBE anniversaries, although if you're HEAPS alpha you would forget anniversaries because remembering them is a massive dlv man.

do not at all costs smile, laugh WITH her (you can laugh at her but make sure your eyes still look vague), compliment her or be nice to her.

i think you get the point im tring to make dude, you really think you can make a connection with someone without sharing your feelings?

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