this is what you do. bring a friend and tell him to MAKE YOU APPROACH!!! to fucking make you i mean fucking make you!! To treat you like a pussy for the night if you dont.
That friend of yours will be the side of you who wants to approach, but instead of being in your head it will be a physical you who will kick your fuckn ass if you don't.
Thats what i did. and it worked.

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yeah dudes am here to learn the pick up game and to get better everyday

You already told me your problem.

DONT EVEN THINK ON WHAT SHE'S GONNA THINK ABOUT YOU! DONT EVEN THINK IF THE OPENER WILL WORK OR NOT! YOU WANT TO DO IT, SO DO IT!

Made that a rule for yourself, don't try to think on what she's gonna think about you.

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NOTICE WHAT THAT WORD THAT POPS UP EARLY IN BOTH OF YOUR EXCUSES FOR NOT APPROACHING:

THINK

You get approach anxiety because you get to the club and you THINK, when really thinking is best kept for while you're studying your lines and doing your homework. How do you stop yourself from thinking? Simple - by adhering to the 3 second rule. This is a concept that was developed by Mystery in the early early days of the community and guess what? It still works today.

To quote Mystery: "You are designed by evolution to have approach anxiety, if you want permission to have approach anxiety, I hereby grant you permission - many of the best pick-up artists in the world still get approach anxiety, but they know how to manage it - by adhereing to the 3 second rule..."

Don't dip your toe in the water and then think about getting in, dive from the highboard and your decision will be made for you.

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Regards,

The Enforcer.

The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.