Dear friends, my nickname is Reserpino. I am Italian, so... Sorry for my English.

I really like Gambler's book and I really trust him, because his seduction theory is supported by a lot of study and experience.

I am a medical student, so I think that a lot of trials are necessary for believing that something is true.

I would be happy if you could give me some clarifications about Gambler's theory.



My question is really simple (and it is addressed in particular to people who agree with Gambler):

Sometimes we know a girl in a context in which we can't talk to her for more than three-four minutes.
Contexts in which we can' t be immediately seductive, because we are at work, for example in a hospital (we are doctors and she is a doctor).

So... Is there a way for slowing down the seductive process without risking the friend zone?

Can we use the SAME SEQUENCE OF INTERACTION ACTIONS Gambler shows in "Natural Game" in situations that we like to develop slowly?

So: Can I be mr. sociable for the first 2 minutes one day, then mr. comfort for the first three minutes another day and then mr. seducer another day?

And, in general: how do you think the seduction process works in a situation like the one in my example? Maybe in these cases the sequence mr. sociable > mr. comfort > mr. seduction don’t have the same value. What’ s your opinion.



Thanks

The mr. Seducer is what the animal part of women crave. It is what attracts them. Be careful with this one though because their conscious mind will know it won't last.

the Mr. nice guy is what reassures the girl that it will last after using seducing techniques. Be careful to not appear to much as a pussy.

the Mr. Sociable lets the girl know you are fun. You can't really use this one to much unless the girl wants to settle down and have kids. She might think you are to much a party person. Then you would use more Mr. Nice guy to ease her skepticism.

It is really a balance of the three techniques that i naturally use. Any time a girl seems hesitant. phase shift to opposite personality. You want to make sure she knows you have a personality; don't always agree with her be cocky funny and disagree otherwise she will think you are agreeing with her just to get close. At that point you use seducing techniques.

Did that help? You want to keep her mind always wondering. Never let her figure you out.