Sorry i didn't know if this topic belongs in the Mid game or Natural game

Alright, so my girlfriend dumped me about two months ago. i followed David Deangeolos plan of the "No Contact Rule". a month and a half later she subtley comes back to me by commenting on a mutual friend pic with me in it and sent me an IOI. So i set up a platonic vibe to meet up with her just as friends. So we had coffee, things went really well but unfortunaly she had to go to pick up her sis and said she wanted to hang out again but for longer (i used push-pull, teased her, and kinoed her).

Where i am getting at is, that we've still been talkin, but flaked on me once and avoided it, but wants to come to one of my punk rock shows. She's been telling me stuff, giving me queues, some sexual, and called me a tease after i called her a tease(push-pulling eachother).

Now, she gives her ex boyfriend IOI's on facebook. idk if she's doing it to make me jealous? its kinda obvious she's attracted to me but i don't know how much, i feel like she wants me to like her, but i tell her she'll run like seabiscuit. On myspace she puts up weird stuff( i only have a band myspace and she thinks i don't check it). she says things like "where is my mind? Mood: sad " then the next one said "the streets are uneven..when you're strange" Mood: contemplating . The last one is from a song - People are strange by the doors.

I want to hang out with her cuz if i do, i know i could re-attract her but idk how i should do this? cuz she'll flake and i think she's sensing im kinda into her. And the only way she won't run away from me is if she is in my presence. She's the reason why my text game is so good haha. She also calls me bumb, which we called eachother during our relationship. idk i could use a little help here but i know that if i wait too long i will lose. Not to mention she alienates herself from mostly everyone... i need a solid plan to meet with her. And my show isn't till 3 weeks from now.