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hey guys, a lot of ppl say that looks are important for naturals, but i see all the rsd guys are average looking and they get laid, whad do u think?
whats an rsd?
anyway there are all kinds of guys and girls (in terms of looks)
for average guy its harder to get good looking girl than for good looking guy.
This post makes my brain hurt.
@Manos - who the fuck told you that looks are important for naturals? Noooo please remove this thought from your mind. Looks, like the others have said, are helpful. Honestly if nothing else they are a bonus. But so is being tall. Or being buff. Or having a lot of money. Or having a nice car. But I mean, do any of THOSE really help you out? If you go up to a girl and say "I make a lot of money" do you think she'll care?
It's a bonus.
If you want to look good, it should be for YOU. Not for anyone else. Hit up a gym. Get a sharp haircut. Wear some stylish clothing. Whatever. But bear in mind attraction for women is VERY different from attraction for men.
@silverito - RSD stands for "Real Social Dynamics". It's a Pick-up related company that coaches guys, offers bootcamps and programs to help men improve their ability to meet and talk to women. I suggest checking out Blue Prints - Decoded, which will help to remove several misconceptions that men have about women.
As far as it being more difficult for an average guy to get a hot girl than it is for a good looking guy - that's rubbish. If that's the mindset you're cultivating, you won't get very far.
It's harder to change who you are on the inside, than who you are on the outside. It's one of the difficulties men must face in becoming attractive. But unlike looks which, once lost are gone forever, the attractive quality of confidence can always be found.
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