Ever since ive been chasing after girls and using my natural game I get bad comments such as "I didn't want to ruin your game" "You really are a player aren't you?" I don't understand how i do come off as a player. I did listen to one thing tho. The girl im dating now saw something on my facebook. It said "I wish i got her number" I wrote that before i started dating her! She said "I didn't wanna ruin your game!" and it upset her. Well i want to stop looking like a player, how do i camouflage that?

pretty much like sean messenger says... if you're gonna live the life of a player then man up and admit to it, straight tell them you are. Now you can skew it to make player a good thing (ie I just like to have fun blah blah)

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IT doesn't matter if you do or do not come off as a player.. If its you, and the girl your with doesn't like it, then you real need to think of al the future drama that will occur between you and that girl. Players are just guys that hang out with different groups of girls because their cool and socialable, and in the process get to sleep with them. So ell her the truth, I do not think of myself as a player, i just like hanging out with differnt groups of girls, and whatever happens between me and them happens. If she has a problem with it, then maybe your not in that stage of your life where u want to be wifed up..

thanks a lot guys, I should just focus on me being me and if they don't accept that, then forget them...oneitis blows anyway

yeah dude, not wanting to come off as a player is dangerous. Really dangerous. If that's who you are, then thats who you are. Never hide who it is that you are, this can only lead to misery.

Now some guys worry about coming off as a player thinking women won't like them. Not true, just accept that thats who you are, and women will accept it too. In fact, having women see you as a player can actually work in your benefit. Number one, because they know if they have sex with you and later on decide to leave, that's its not going to be a big deal to you and they aren't going to lose your friendship, because you understand, since you're a player. Also more women will want to fuck you because they see that it's normal for you and not a big deal. Plus we could throw in things like social proof, if they believe other women want you, well that could very well lead to them wanting you even more. So never ever feel bad about being a player. There's all sorts of benefits to being a player. Now saying that, there's all sorts of benefits to not being a player as well, for guys reading this that think they need to be a player first. It doesn't matter, it's all a matter of who you are and what you want, and then being authentic about it.

Now here's an example of one of the things I find myself doing, usually this happens at bars or clubs at times. Some woman or group of women says I'm a player... I just kind of look at them in silence and focus on the emotion that I get, and I let that emotion go and become as comfortable as possible. Then I just kind of nod my head a little bit and say... maybe... and then I change the subject. I definetely don't preach that I'm a player or go on and on about it, I just let them believe whatever they want to believe. In honesty, I just don't care what they think. THere's millions upon millions of women out there, I just don't have time to care what they think. You know what i mean, there's just too many

yeah now I can totally see why someone wouldn't want to come off as a player...