so i day gamed a girl on the bus. we've been talking and causually dating the last month. i got into a deep conversation with her about relathionships. and....she has no history of one. shes never dated a guy before. i have this little feeling that i was even her first kiss....(*hint* she doesn't use or is afraid to use her tongue when i attempt to make out with her)...what do you gentle recommend i do or try?

OK, you have a puppy on your hand.

First and foremost, be gentle with her. She wants to experience things but she has to feel comfortable and TRUST you....So don't blow it by being unfaithful and too aggressive with her.

If she is a virgin (and it sounds like she is) she is really vulnerable and inexperienced, so don't blow it.

Second, you have to ask yourself if you still want to be a PUA. This is the hard part because you don't know how she will be once she gains experience. If you give her a bad experience, then you are out on the streets, if its a good one, she might keep you around for a LONG TIME...so be honest with yourself on this one. She will become needy and will want you to commit to her. If you can't do that, then don't pursue her. Virign girls have been in my experience the most clingy and CRAZIEST girls when it comes to arguments or time to end the relationship.

Remember, she has lots more to lose than you do right now... So she is testing you to see how devoted you are to her.

If it was me and I still wanted to be a PUA, I would just keep it as friends and see other people. But if I thought she was 'The One' then I would pursue her.

Its a hard call. Your choice, just be aware of what you are getting yourself into.

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

well this is what i'm thinking....perhaps....she may be a very sexualy active girl...though the signs aren't there. (ive even tried naughty texting - felt like i ahit a brick wall trying that). i'm curious too see. i have nothing to loose. i don't expect this to go far!?!? so im gunna play it by ear i guess and see what happens