Something that we're all doing is studying men who have it made, and sometimes that means studying an actor who plays characters. Characters are near-impossible, idealized caricatures of what the movie/tv show writers have in mind, but they are who women are watching and wishing that their boyfriend/suitors were more like.

So 1) Film/tv study lets you take notes on the guys you're being compared to. You can pick up tips on dress, posture, voice tonality, and some pretty good negs.
2) You get some common ground to talk to women about
3) For Day 2/come back to my apartment scenarios, you have another enticement: i have the episodes, come over and watch.

A great guy to study is Alec Baldwin on 30 Rock. His character is a total alpha asshole and women love him. Most of his lines to Tina Fey are along the lines of ," You have the confidence of a much younger woman," or "If you were any other woman on earth, I'd be turned on right now."

Always looks sharp, great posture, commanding voice. And girls LOVE watching the show... which, incidentally, is damn funny.

Any other suggestions?

Personally for me it's CJ Sparrow (by Johnny Depp) and Russell Brand....

btw. they are thinking of making Russell Brand play the brother of CJ and take his lead role at the Pirates of The Caribbean 5 (no, not the next one coming up, the next next one lol) Just an interesting fact...

They both are not really of what you call an Alpha Male, but they suit me, because of their sexual humor, ultra metrosexual style, and my favorite: the kinda drunk appearance, of always being in your bubble playing with yourself, having fun(get your mind of the gutter guys) and getting surprised by the simplest things (which is really fun). If you don't understand what I'm talking about watch them for like 2 hours and then read this over and you will get....

It all depends on your personality and what works best for ya

Cheers,

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V3nu

These two guys come to mind because they can get just about any women they want. They are also very alpha and thats more my style.

Sean Connery (James Bond)- voice, look , demeanor the guy had it all and the ladies loved him for it.

Brad Pitt--in most of his movies (and probably in real life) he can cut a women to shreds by just looking at them. He has not only the looks but the personality to back it up.

Jeremy Piven, as Ari Gold in Entourage. Takes no shit from anyone, always finds how to get his way. Absolutely endless wit, excellent alpha body language/posture. Ive been watching the show with girls and have heard them say how he always looks like owns everything in sight just by his walk. My favorite alpha character of all time