i was just thinking about the times when i trusted myself to approuch girls in the past and that awesome feeling that you get in your body otherwise known as presence. the fact is Im having a hard time getting that feeling when im in the club, i do martial arts and its the exact same feeling , you feel alive , and focused. i

v been trying to figure out a way to explain it to myelf what im doing to get that feeling in martial arts ..and the best way i can describe it is ....I'm focused 100% on my opponent otherwise im gonna get smashed in the face i do not take my eyes of him ...cause if i do i get hurt

the way i would translate that to a girl is.........I'm focused on her, i do not take my eyes of her otherwise i dont mate. someone on here said ..dont ask for the pussy take it , im really starting to see how that would cause instant attraction in a girl ,she wants an animal who takes what he wants...... opinions welcome

i also do martial arts and its a big part of my life. i dont know if its even possible to use that to impress women, but i use the confidence i gained to help with the approach. now as for the 100% focus thing, i would not advise coming off like that. in my experience it can be a bit strong at times, especially with timid little asian girls in clubs. staring/looking too hard at girls is bad.

if i were to give an alternative... u know that great feeling u get AFTER a good round of sparring or whatever drills you enjoy? your spirits are high, smile on your face regardless of whether you got busted up, thats the type of energy i would have. being smooth with the energy seems to be my ideal combo.

i also do martial arts and its a big part of my life. i dont know if its even possible to use that to impress women, but i use the confidence i gained to help with the approach. now as for the 100% focus thing, i would not advise coming off like that. in my experience it can be a bit strong at times, especially with timid little asian girls in clubs. staring/looking too hard at girls is bad.

if i were to give an alternative... u know that great feeling u get AFTER a good round of sparring or whatever drills you enjoy? your spirits are high, smile on your face regardless of whether you got busted up, thats the type of energy i would have. being smooth with the energy seems to be my ideal combo.

i also do martial arts and its a big part of my life. i dont know if its even possible to use that to impress women, but i use the confidence i gained to help with the approach. now as for the 100% focus thing, i would not advise coming off like that. in my experience it can be a bit strong at times, especially with timid little asian girls in clubs. staring/looking too hard at girls is bad.

if i were to give an alternative... u know that great feeling u get AFTER a good round of sparring or whatever drills you enjoy? your spirits are high, smile on your face regardless of whether you got busted up, thats the type of energy i would have. being smooth with the energy seems to be my ideal combo.